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Hello to u too there Sofia,let me tell you i didn't finish the movie as i didn't find that interesting maybe i should try again?But let me tell you that i saw Fractured if we are on movies subject,if you didn't already saw it it's a great movie ;)

Yes, Tanya, I know a few people who didn't find this movie interesting either. At least you already know about it ... You will return to it when your time comes. I can't tell you that you need to watch it now. But I will try to see the Fractured in the near future. I haven't watched it - in fact, I'm not very good at cinema. Thank you! ))

Hehehe well im honest and also a movies fan especially SF/Horror grrrr fan so when u got time and also Netflix i really recommend Fractured as the end is a big surprise and im sure you will enjoy it ;) *-*

I already started watching last night))) in anticipation....)))

Glad to hear and good for you Sofia hope you will love it :)enjoy it,me binge watching Monk,i know nobody asked me :)))

just finished watching ... It's scary to even think to what we bring each other, and ourselves too ...

Yep was scary for me too,hope no bad blood against me for telling you about that movie ;)but to recover yourself from that,when got time i recommend u Monk police-action-comedy series to put a smile on that face as i'm sure we all need *-*.Cheers

Thank you for diluting my boringness with your positive! We all need this for sure)))))) I am grateful to you for recommending this film! But for me it "describes" more, and the the Shack "explains." But ... it seems that no one but you and I care about this)))) Well, okay))) Let's hope everyone is busy enjoying each other))))))

My pleasure you're too kind too :),my pleasure to talk/chat something that i like/love with good people/hosts when have the free time *-**-*

i watch it very like lol

So you can t give gifts to Make New Friend category??? Have I missunderstood??

You can give gifts in friends (and also marriage/long term) BUT not while you are chatting with them.

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well from my experience..i preferred girls that do not work in a studio

i have had the situation when i was in a video with a host in a studio a few days later in chat..another host knew something about me that she shouldnt have known. so that is one negative about studio..girls talk :)

i personally do like host that works for herself..thats just how i would like it for all girls..but i know its not possible. and also most studio girls are working on many sites so when you go to video..sometimes you can hear it..which is kind of annoying but thats just how it is :)

anways my 2 cents good luck

Thanks for the detailed answer! )))

Independent girls work multiple sites, too, Rog.

I agree about the "girl talk" issue -- that is both annoying and inappropriate, and in the few instances where I encountered it, it ended my visits with that particular host.

That said, I, for one, have had enjoyable experiences, with both studio and non-studio hosts, I can't say one is better than the other.

The main two issues I see with studio, is that the profiles are often cookie cutters, and the host often has no idea what she has "promised." The other issue is the studios tend to be more come-and-go, whereas the independents, in my observation, tend toward longer tenure working.

Usually but not always the video quality is better in a studio.

I see... Thank you! ))

There are no cons in working from home in my opinion ! only pros !
I've been an independent model on here for many years. You are your own boss, you make the rules, the scheduale, plus, you don't share your cash with anyone !
All my members tell me they appreciate more a model that works from home, because of the privacy, we all know by now that in studios there is no such thing as privacy, and the trainers that moderate the girls have they're eyes on both the girls and what they do with the members at all time ..
Girls at home have more personality, we are more relaxed , we dont see it as work ;)

If the host is as sharp as Myles, there's no downside to working from home at all :)

You have right with all u said and i would never switch from my lovely homework to studios EVER,i rather work harder and make my space like a studio place with all the tules need it and be my own Boss then working for studios.Not my cup of tea Studios either

Thank you, Myles and Tanja! I understand what you are talking about? )))))

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I prefer knowing what I spend goes to the host as much as possible, so working at home would be better for them. Also you are less likely to hear other hosts talking while you are visiting a host, that can be annoying. And seeing the shadows of other hosts walking past behind the camera is distracting also. Much better for hosts at home.

And thank you, Graybeard too)))

Nothing against the studios, I am sure they have benefits for their girls, but I find chats with girls in studios so much more scripted. Its true, the quality seems to be better in studios but I find overall that the experience with independent girls is much more natural and that makes it it more enjoyable for me

Thank you for your opinion! by the way, there is a high probability of being heard by the studios and perhaps they will become even better)))

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Thank you! You brought up a very interesting topic - professionalism in this matter! It seems, but what kind of professionalism can there be? Is this a profession?! But yes, you can treat this as entertainment, or you can treat it as work, as serving ... It is interesting: what men like more - when the chathost professionally works to satisfy the interests of a man or when she herself enjoys what is happening?)))

It's the attitude, more than the so-called professionalism :) The pros are quite few, while the time wasters, the chathosts who have a list of excuses or that simply copied/pasted their profile and are unwilling to move from their swivel chair even in 121 session exist both in "softcore" and "hardcore" categories.

The primary benefits, as I see them, is that the studio generally provides and maintains the working environment and the equipment (which many cannot afford) as well as handles all the paperwork and income payouts.

The primary con, as I see it: in addition to CC's share of the income, the studio boss also has his/her share, thus greatly reducing the camgirl's share. Another con, is the host would have less discretion as to her time working, and is answerable to a boss.

Thank you, ThePhoenixRises, for the informal comments and your interest in the topics))) Maybe thanks to you and other site users like you, we will revive the forum? ))))
Based on your comments and the rest of the opinions expressed, I personally got the impression that there is no particular difference, since everything is possible, both in one group and in another and more and more depends on personality of the host itself. Since the host can always find out what is written in his profile and initiate changes in the description, if necessary, the host in the studio can show respect for it guests and respect confidentiality, bosses can show respect for the employees and their guests by creating for them secluded workplaces ... I think that everyone is just at the right time in the right place for themselves (both hosts and men). The duration of the host's work also depends, probably, more on her awareness when deciding to try herself in this ... In general, thanks to all the comments, I realized a fairly high degree of obviousness of this topic)) Once again, thanks! )))

Well...this is only my personal take on this... but I would prefer...a girl that is working from her own home. i think that she is more independent of how she chooses to work ,how when ,and where. She can set her own standards...I see girls obviously working from the same studio...where their profile is EXACTLY the same...a standard form...handed out to whoever works there...with NO...input from the individual girl herself...seems more like a factory...than a studio.. I think a model working on this site should be able to at least put some of her own personality into their own profile which may or may not be effective in earning them more money.I tend to exit those...for that reason. I do think that understandably some girls do not have the ability to work from their home...for many reasons... including the cost of equipment..etc. and that is how they are able to work and make their money...I'm not saying that I wouldn't visit someone in a studio...but my first preference is a model working from home under her own rules...and independence. Thank You...

Thank you! For sincerely sharing your opinion with us. I hope that your answer, together with the answers of other users, will lead to better profiles and approaches to organizing the work of hosts.

yeah its recorded...i asked her to raise hand..and she disconnected :)

Write to CC support.

i did

Nice one, the account looks to have been blitzed.

yeah cc took action and blacklisted her....but your suspicions was correct

there are several here and at other sites that appear to be a video.

what categories seem to have the most recorded videos?

Dear SofiaYinYang,
I hereby nominate you for the Editor in Chief of the General Forum. And this is a good thing.

Regarding why have more than one nick name let me give you just one example of how it is useful. I once had a vid with a host who like myself also participated frequently in the Community Chat Room. The vid experience for me was not a good one. So of course I did not wish to do another vid with this camhost. It was like having a bad date. However every time the host saw my name in the Community Chat room she would harass me publicly with comments about why I did not return to her vid. She would make comments like:
"Why do you not vid me? Am I ugly?"
"Are you vidding someone else?"
"You are a cheap bastard....why do you not vid me again."
She was relentless.
It was as if because I had one vid with her she owned me.
A very experienced host suggested to me that I have one name for use in the Community Chat Room and one for vidding. This was good advice. That way I can go to the Community Chat room and enjoy casual conversation without being the target of a jealous or possessive host. There are other reasons for members to have more than one name I am sure.

If you are going to do what Pete did, may I suggest that you don't use "ADifferentPete" as your alternate nickname.

Thanks Pete! ))) Do you think the site should hire me? )))) I really like our discussions and I hope that over time, a much larger number of users will allow us to find out their opinions on a variety of issues)))
As for the situation you described, I express my sympathy for you and not only for you. Although .... it seems to me that for the other participants it might even seemed funny! ))) However, as for you too - such persistence in an effort to get your attention could even flatter! )) What touched you so much? ;-) Perhaps you let her know during the chat that you like such wording? ;-)) "Berate me! Insult me! Oh, yes, baby!" ))))))
On the other hand, modern marketing strategies have an impact .... What are offered to us in commercials? "Do you feel discomfort from overeating fatty and junk food ?! Continue to rape yourself and shove into yourself what you can't even look at already, because now you have our wonderful enzymes and they should be used !!!!" Perhaps the chathost was also looking for an opportunity to show you some kind of antidote to bad chats? ))) Perhaps, she had a different marketing strategy - to force you to create a second account and thus double her earning opportunities - because now she can communicate already with not one, but two users))))) Oh! now the meaning of the rule has reached me - chat hosts receive bonuses if they contribute to the registration of new users, but in the event that the registered user has not previously been a user of the site. This wording seemed strange to me, but now I am beginning to understand that it is very reasonable! ))))
But on the third hand ))) by the rules of the chat rude behavior and insulting users are prohibited. Why didn't you turn to the moderator to block the chathost and thus ensure yourself a further pleasant pastime on the site?
PS It seems to me that soon they will start blocking me, I am becoming more and more wordy! ))) Sorry, I promise to improve myself)))

I doubt that CC will block you. Although in the past I had many posts to the discussion board deleted. This is not a free press here. And yes...I think CC should hire you!. And perhaps they have already. This General Forum has been dead for a long time. Perhaps you have the energy and style to revive it. To be honest the Viewers Only Forum is not very interesting to many of us. It usually is a member wondering where a favorite host vanished to or some guy feeding their fetish fantasies. By the way......here is a topic for you: No host stays here forever.
By and large camhosting is not a dream job for most women. They come out of a desire to make money of course. Combine that with for most men sexual allure is the driving force behind their membership. Many men can not appreciate the allures of a mature woman and the hosts move on in life to raising families and other jobs. Although apparently some of us members (Me for example,, :) stay almost forever.

Well, even if they have already done it, then I don't know anything about it either))))
Pete, you touched on even more than one topic! The first is the reanimation of the general forum ... For me alone, this task, of course, is beyond my power, but we all can easily cope with it. Do we all need it? Let's give our opinions. Do you need a general forum? And what are your expectations from it? What needs can it satisfy? It seems to me that there are three camps on this issue and each of them can make its own contribution in case of interest. The first is the administration of the site itself - if they consider the general forum as one of the chips that attract and retain users on the site (keeping the principle from deleting and keeping their attention before logging out and in these few minutes some host has the opportunity to lure this user into chat)))) Also, this way can show the social responsibility of the site, since we can discuss on the forum many issues that are relevant to the site's audience, for example, online dependence ... If it seems to administration interesting, it has a powerful resource (from restructuring the forum and ending with various incentive contests and other things). Well, naturally, the life of the forum directly depends on the camp of members and the camp of chathostes. Let's speak out who is attracted by the forum and why? Even if you are used to just reading messages on the forum - write now about it and why you are interested in it? Or maybe it will be easier and better to invite several users to my room for tea or to my personal forum and not bore the rest of the audience? )))
For me personally, the general forum gives the feeling of the presence of life on the site. When scattered users are knocking to you is one feeling, but when there is some sense of community - here you want to get involved, you want to share something ... and of course, discussions by themselves often give rise to very interesting conclusions and discoveries. The online chat of the community is not very convenient for me personally, since, unfortunately, I am not very good at English and cannot keep up with the pace of general chat. And sometimes there are periods when you enter the chat, and there is silence ..... "only the dead with braids stand along the roads"))) Something like this .... I will single out this issue as a separate topic in this discussion. And I will also highlight the second question ...

"Many men can not appreciate the allures of a mature woman and the hosts move".... in Editor in Chief of the General Forum or in life to raising families and other jobs )))))))))))
I congratulate and sincerely glad for everyone who went into life to raise a family - after all, work is for us and not us for work)))
Of course, nothing is eternal ... I think that the members here also do not always settle for life. And what about the dream job and what brought chathosts to this site - can chathosts share with us their pain and delight, if there is a desire?
I personally share the opinion: "Find a job you like and you won't have to work a day." Of course, initially the need to earn money brought me here, but this is much more than earnings for me... And let some disappointed memebers forgive me, but I'm not ready to sell anything here, although, of course, I'm not ready to engage in exclusively charity work either )))) But I feel real pleasure when every time my members and I create some special common atmosphere and I think that this pleasure is passed on to my beloved members and this, as it seems to me, is the most valuable for everyone participants in what is happening...
Or maybe go to the sellers and not tire people with this verbiage? )))))

Sofia you very beautiful women!
( whenever they will answer to u here)

Hope for it! Thank you) Are YOU interested in participation in such discussions? I feel that you are already an experienced chat host, an interesting personality and your messages will always be valuable and pleasant for users and for me in particular)))

yes, I've been on the site for a long time)
will soon be 9 years old. Yes, I am always very interested in communicating with pleasant and not mad people. Sometimes the essence is not even important, just mutual contact can give a lot.
I will be glad to meet and talk with u here if u dont mind
.and MERRY CHRISTMAS To u dear Sofia!

I will be happy! ))) Can chathosts communicate directly on this site or in forums and community chats only? Thank you for wishes! And I guess that Merry Christmas for you too? ))))

hosts talk usualy in open chat or here on forum
in chat they can chating to privat messange if they want noone read they -but also can chating in open -with everyone in same time

So, would like to be in touch here and in chat )))

i'm sure guys make nicknames for different purposes)) one guy made a new nickname, called me and said "do you remember the guys who call you?" I said yes. and then he said "i called you before, guess who I am" and i was like hmmmmmm uuuuummm but i got it in the end. it was fun

P.S. but if you know me and want to do that too, dont do it. it takes a lot of time

Thank you for participating! That is, while the girls agree that poly-name is funny. Well, in the end - it's still not polygamy))))

this is so funny ! i had a few members who tried to come see me under different nicknames.. i knew it right away. Each of my members has a way of typing..they use certain words or expressions that are unique and i recognize them right away. Sometimes when you cant see someone on cam and they only write, it leaves you space to pay more attention to other things such as the way of someone is typing. if you pay close attention to how and what your members say you can see it ;) Also almost everyone has a very unique set of requests, even tho they think its common :))

yes, you're right))) i know the typing style of some guys too, but it's not always easy))

my typing style varies depending on whether cat is on my arm

Wow! One more cat lover!!! Do you use multiple nicknames too? ))) I wonder if there is someone here who communicates under only one nickname? )) Can chat hosts create multiple profiles for themselves too? )))

Thank you for answering! I agree... but sometimes these ways of typing are so similar and coincide in time that only formal caution stops from throwing myself on the neck to the first comer))))

Exactly. I recognize them by the third line always hahaha

Nope! You did not! :>

i could fake all yall out would never guess :)

I am also sure that this is possible! I think it all depends on the goals of the man - someone wants to remain unrecognized, and someone wants to be recognized ... And someone (like xxbabydollxx) wants to play her own game))))

some guys come with different nicknames and write with similar signs, playing in ''cat and mouse ''with me, at one point I got so tired of this game that I decided to start my game. no matter how hard the guys try to hint to me - until the last time I pretend that I see him for the first time - it annoys some - but I get fun on my own way/
and now it is not me, but they are once not sure whether I recognized them or not.

Interesting point of view!))))

I have known chat hosts who have had 4 different names here. I think it's funny because they pretty much ran the gamut from marriage/long term all the way to instant action. I guess she was pretty much down for anything.

I would think it would be confusing but that's none of my business.

I think that's a marketing strategy. Leave no stone unturned :)))))

And what's the best marketing strategy here in your opinion? ))

I have absolutely no problem with it. It makes sense to me.

That is, we can register a new name in each category... Why isn't this your business, Paul? Isn't everything that happens here for your pleasure?

I didin t had sex but I was close .I had a meeting with a hot guy attraction was so big ,he started kissing me and licking my ears alot ....the taxi driver been waching in the mirror lool ...But he couldn t stop licking my ears ....It was HOT !

Really interesting !!! An ambiguous situation... on the one hand it is difficult to get into, but on the other hand - additional stimulation...)))))

I do ,when I get it as gift !Thank you!

Maya, what is your favorite jewel? Gotta buy the right one so I know you will enjoy it ;)

A colorfull jewel ,bmw ....A purple one :)

Thank you! ))) And accept my sincere congratulations too!
Already now, a large part of our lives is associated with pleasure. I wish everyone that everything else would be totally imbued with pleasure, despite all modern circumstances. Enjoying the smile of a loved one, enjoying the freshness of the winter air or the hot touch of the sun, enjoying success and challenges in work, enjoying planning, making and raising children, enjoying every breath and sigh, every millimeter of the visible and every anticipation of the invisible ... I wish you simply dissolve in pleasure ... Happy New Year!!!!

Happy New Year ! New year...New adventures .Cheers to health, happiness, and prosperity in 2021!

HAPPY 2021 to all!!!

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Happy New Year best wishes,hugs,healthy,good people and bunch luck to all xxx

it must be difficult for girls dealing with different languages.. voice is important to me.. it may be some verbal phrases combined with written chat might do the trick

thanks for your sincere answer! I will try not to overuse, but I will take every opportunity to apply)))

i read the personal forums..gives you an idea on what to expect...also about non adult/adult...in my experience its all the same if you know what i mean....good luck..have fun :)

Thanks for the unexpected idea! I would never have such thought! )))) Thank you for your wishes! And I want to wish you that in the future, even within the same category, you will never meet the same thing and that each of your video sessions will always be something special! If you know what I mean..... )))))

So many questions there. It is difficult to know where to start. But I think many of us read profiles and what hosts or their studios write there. I have always considered it one of key marketing methods for the camhost as well as setting up parameters on what she (or he, or he/she) will do or not do. A few years back I used to help the occasional host write theirs. It was amusing playing around with the words and to think about what would entice people to vid and what has no significant effect. There are some things end up in hosts forums that are common but self evident, such as indicating the host hates rude men. And a profile that has nothing but various emoticons leaves a bit to be desired I think. It takes energy and creativity in both photographs and words to create a unique profile that lures a customer in. Thanks for the post on general forum. I suspect people's comments will vary.

Thank you, Pete, for such a detailed answer! Your real name, by any chance, not Karl?))) And thanks again to all who answered for thoughtful answers, not formal replies. With every answer on the forum and with every new guest, I am convinced that here you can find really interesting communication with deep contact, and not just and not only have fun. And yes, I agree that creating texts for a profile is a very exciting experience .... at first - the fear of a blank sheet, but then you get carried away and it is already difficult to stop))) however, as with messages in the forum ))). It is a little difficult to fit into a system where there is no full access to the audience - on the one hand, it is even interesting and you can relax - because nothing seems to depend on you (the submission almost which we are discussing))), and on the other hand, you want to feel the audience, exchange energies ... the forum gives such a feeling. Thank you to everyone of you and I love you all)))

Hi. My real name is not Karl. I know how odd this will appear but my real name is Peter or Pete. Weird huh? A person using their given name is not the norm here. Perhaps it shows a lack of imagination on my part. :)

or really smart ! because noweone would expect you to use your real name ;)

Well, to be honest, I was hinting at Charles IX, and never suspected you of cunning or training the imagination)))) I think that on your part this is more likely a manifestation of the recently discussed free will )))) After all, this is just a name and not an imprint of the retina))))) And they say that the sound of your own name is one of the most pleasant things for a person, and we are all here for this ...

And of course so many members and some hosts have multiple names at CC. It can get very confusing sometimes.
Happy New Year to you and thanks for the postings. They are fun.

That is, Pete9 and Doug655.... can they be one person? )))) It's funny))))) Thank you and everyone who answers and participates in discussions, including the girls, although they are not yet very actively involved)) Happy New Year to all of you and all of us!

Pete9 and Doug655 are not the same person. I am sure Doug will be happy not to be confused with me. :)
There are good reasons to have more than on name in CC though. A topic for another discussion perhaps.

Prankster !!!! You're right! We will still have something to do in the new year! ))) I promiss to create a new discussion! But this will be after the New Year)))) There is still a lot to be done this year! At least not to fall for the provocations of some pranksters)))))

I agree with Pete. A personal profile/forum gives a host a way to manage expectations. The same holds true of the distinction between Adult and Non-adult categories. An Adult category designation automatically creates a "hardening" of expectations, yet a Non-adult host may entice her (or his) members with every tool in the tool-box, at least in my experience. And I always read profiles, and there are quite a few to admire.

I'm sure Pete has lured me into a host's room on occasion...

Thank you very much! I think, thanks to the answers here, I am just beginning to understand the true characteristics of the category Non Adult ))))

you can still have a mind fuck in nonadult

you can still have a mind fuck in nonadult

you can still have a mind fuck in nonadult

lol....
plz say again thats , (hahaha)
u do ythats very cute 3 TIMES:D

sorry about that

You don't need to apologize))) This is actually cute - I'm already starting to believe that I really can still )))))))))))))))))

its ok it was a good natured comment no offense take

this is real manly from your side!(many shy ask sorry on publick)
respectfully!

I felt it based on your previous comments and I am not offended))) it really refreshed the atmosphere in this thread)) You know, I even wanted to thank you for those "mind fuck" - my guests liked it so much that they began to deal with it with even greater zeal and dedication! )))))))

I visit non-adult video chat to do just that - chat. Therefore I look at the profile text closely. It does not matter what the host says - all I am looking for is to see if she has a good command of English. No text or a profile that is a generic copy and paste from a studio then no visit as long chats using a translating program are tedious. As to photos - I want to see who I will be chatting with. No face photo - no visit.

Thanks for the answer! ) I met a connoisseur of just chat here! 2021 is definitely a happy year! )))) And it really doesn't matter what is written in the profile? with whom and what about to communicate? Or are you making predictions about what you can talk to a person by her photo? Or is the topic and quality of the conversation not important?

mmmmmmm you looks like my English teacher!!!
maybe its you?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3YHHLJBkiI

)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Thank you for this ))

Thank you! )) And Marry Christmas to you too! ))) Wish you a wonderful members and fabulous pleasure from communicating on the site))) And wish all the best to everybody )))

Merry Christmas and best wishes to all the special ladies here

happy newyr:)

thank you

Merry Christmas everyone. Kisses.

MERRY CHRISTMAS ALL!HAPPY HOLIDAYS !

Merry Merry nasty Chritsmas hehe to u too and too all ladies hostes xxx

warmest wishes for christmas!

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I hope we will stay alive:)
Have a magic new year GUYS! XOXOXOXO

What psychological relief do many alpha males in socially dominant positions experience in identifying with the submissive role. Fantasizing themselves as “liberated” from all the responsibilities that go with functioning in dominant professional roles offers them a respite from always having to be in control. And, of course, because they get to choose the fantasy material that most turns them on, they haven’t really given up control in such a way that might produce anxiety. So, despite appearing to lose control in these fantasies apparently they "control" all the aspects of the relationship. It is an interesting topic. BTW, I am not a sub but I see so many in the Community Chat room I was curious and did some reading. It seems counter intuitive for many men who are "alpha men" in life to gravitate to sub fantasies. Go figure...we humans make sexual reproduction so damn complicated! Now...why do some men love feet? :)

Wow! I didn't even expect to receive such an answer! Thank you! I invite you to my room - we will discuss the legs, including))) Now not only your words are interesting for me, but their author also)))))))))))

i do not know if i have as articulate a response but i have always felt submissive..it may be that some experiences made me this way but glad there are safe avenues to explore

Thank you! Your answer is very important, no matter how you formulate it! So you are doing research in the process? Exploring yourself and your feelings? or? .... and in social life do you consider yourself an "alpha male" or not? Such a rare opportunity to discuss with a person involved in this topic, but at the same time, it seems like from the outside ...

i think there may be some confusion about being submissive in a relationship as opposed to being a doormat in daily life which i am not

Yes .... on the one hand, only a strong person can obey, since this obedience must be realized in principle ... otherwise it turns out not submission, but simply violence ... on the other hand, submission of a man to a woman is very an interesting question ... after all, in theory, submission as such is not very characteristic of a man. In general, it's difficult ... it's also difficult to feel it from the inside, since I'm not a man))))

Yes I agree. It is impossible to truly experience what others experience. A childhood fantasy of mine was to swap perception with other people to see "what they see." What do they feel? It is impossible to know. Even something as simple as colors vision is different for all of us.

well, to some extent, it is still possible ... but only in interaction with another person. If you eliminate as much as possible everything personal in interaction, all assessments and conclusions - but simply observe and see, listen and hear - in this case, you can see what others see. So, to some extent, your childhood dream is absolutely real. For the most part, here, of course, we train the skills of forming various illusions, but if you set a goal, you can train a completely opposite skill - dispelling any illusions ...

i can trace certain experiences that trigger an attraction to humiliation.. the brain listens to what we think about and creates neurons and pathways in relation to same..is this a self created addiction?

I share the belief that absolutely everything in our life is created by ourselves. Or at least it is a manifestation of our personal will and our own choice. Don't you think so?

There is a philosophy that has been around for a long time that we create our own reality. And now some physicists suggest we might actually be living in a hologram. So perhaps you are correct, "we are what we think." On the other hand I often believe we do not have free will and there is strong evidence to support this theory. So....we were discussing doms and subs. The conversation has changed. My apologies for hijacking your thread. :)

https://www.nature.com/news/simulations-back-up-theory-that-universe-is-a-hologram-1.14328

I am very grateful to you for your contribution to this discussion and would be very grateful if you could share with me your arguments against the existence of free will. I'm really curious .... As for the topic of the thread - it hasn't changed .... do you really think that so many people spend so much time and money here solely because of unwarranted behavioral preferences? )))
P.S.: I have not read the article yet, but now I will take it)))

i think it is a mixtures..we do not creat all of our own experiences

my experience confirms my beliefs, but you have your own experience. Want to create a shared one? ))))

Is hard to discuss such a large topic as free will here. And there are many ways to make an argument to prove there is no free will. Let me start with two arguments.

a. Imagine a universe in which everything that happens is completely caused by whatever happened before it. So what happened in the beginning of the universe caused what happened next and so on, right up to the present. If I decided to have a meat pie at lunch one day, this decision, like all others, was caused by what happened before it.

b. Or consider what started this discussion. The topic of sexual submissive men. Did these people chose this desire? No. it is in them. Just like I am a heterosexual male and I am attracted to women. I did not make this choice of attraction. It is just in me.

Thank you for your detailed answer! Yes, you are right - it is even strange to have such philosophical conversations here, but we do)))) By the way, the topic of the conversation is not men who obey, but dominance in principle. In my root message, there was even more about dominant men, not submissive ... It is really difficult to debate, because if I now begin to convince you that your theses are not correct, this will only cause resistance from your side and we will turn into ping-pong players))) Rather, I will answer you that I understand what you mean))) but at the same time these are rather your beliefs (or perhaps not yours) and not arguments as such .... Probably, in response, I can also give only some of my beliefs (perhaps not mine). This can already be considered an argument in favor of free will - everyone lives based on their beliefs)))) and if we return to your arguments, then in the beginning of the Universe there was a Source ... which provided us with this free will ... You have probably heard about experiments physicists - a quantum behaves like a particle or like a wave, depending on the point of view of the observer - this is a scientific fact .... Do you think that submissive men in the maternity hospital have written on a name tag - submissive? It seems to me that we are still confusing free will with awareness. Because, yes, you do not choose your meat pie by chance. but in connection with your previous free decision ....
But actually .... why do you allow me to tire everyone here with these reflections))))) Don't you know how to make a woman shut up? You are attractive, I am damn attractive - why waste time? ))))))))))

Great response and it was fun to read it. I am impressed. You are clearly extremely intelligent and have a sense of humor. Just one simple question. Do you believe in God?

Thank you for your kind words)))) I am very lucky with my interlocutors! I really enjoy this dicussion! Thanks to all the participants for this))) Of course, I believe in God! Absolutely everyone believes! It's just that everyone's faith is different and someone does not even know yet that they believe)))) I also have a not very traditional faith, but nevertheless ...

The justice system for crime and punishment as well as the moral edicts of religion need the concept of free will to be a coherent system don't you think? As you can see....I am trying to make my messages here a bit briefer. I tend to be a bit excessively wordy. :)

Are you giving me an example of brevity? Or are you trying to curtail my pleasure of reading you just because of capriciousness? )))
I think that neither the justice system, nor the moral decrees of religions are incompatible with free will, since they are institutions of control and subordination, and free will is more likely to develop ... I think that the system of justice and religions are necessary for those who still did not come to awareness, and therefore cannot fully use free will. And those who have already come to free will do not need the limitations of justice and religion, they already have much more stringent limitations of their own ...

well lets maintain some fun.. the ladies provide an escape when one is needed.. am too old for therapy..lol.. i believe i have limited free will but choose to surender it.. safe sane and consentual.. i think therefore i am

if at your "too old" age you still prefer to give up free will, then it seems to me that no one shows it more than you in this refusal))) I think, like a mother cat which allows her kittens to bite her ears, you generously allow us to dominate ))))))))))))))))

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Good luck !

cute, but it takes a loot of cash to be a sugar daddy :)) Some guys buy you dinner, and they consider themselfs a sugar daddy, when it actually takes a car or something even more expenssive to be a legit one

mmmmmm.......Sugar Sugar
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i like darling

Happy holidays you to!!!MERY CHRISTMAS!!!

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Hey Twink! :) I see you

Call me and we can do it

i want too

I talk with a girl who is so sexy, she makes me cum while she's fully dressed.

Yes, you know what I am talking about ))) I would love to talk with so smart guy too )))) Come on! ))

probably from different perspective CFNM..woman dressed is powerful to guys like me

but whats to do with guys about with who nothing to talk about ,who realy stupid - and u want faster he cum and leave you?

Ahahahah babe!!! Just tell him to lick it and cumm :)))

Now I know why you are always in a hurry with me :P

Just Kidding ))

It's not just about seeing, or even about imagining. It's about attitude, about responding back-and-forth in real time. Maybe it's a striptease, maybe something harder and rougher. Or maybe not. It's that which feeds you also making you hungrier.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y09ScS6LlBw

Imagined, full stop

What do you mean, Tourist? Could you explain more detail, please?

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Why not?

I love it when a girl wears a mask, a nice leather one covering the head. I also wear one.

lol

speaking of..we do have quite a few member who own a guitar and play it very well! i had some playing for me..and wow ! from rock guitar solos to serenades...just beautiful !

Martin are good but for a top class guitar at a more reasonable price look at Dowina. They are based in Slovakia and make superb hand made guitars.

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I can' answer that because all I own is a lowly Martin LX1, the "Little Martin". I am nowhere near good enough to need a $5,000 guitar. I would eventually like to get a Gibson L1 which are no longer made but can be found for around $2,600. Good luck with your guitar shopping.

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Honestly, I think you are asking the wrong question.

Musicians and their instruments actually develop a relationship of sorts. In my experience, I would say the guitar you should buy is the one that most draws the music out of you. When you pick it up, it doesn't want you to put it down. There are many guitars out there that are incredible for around the same price points as those Martins. (I personally want to get a Loef guitar https://www.loefguitars.fi/) Buy the guitar that you hate to put down. The sound you produce from that guitar will be far better than buying an expensive guitar for the sake of having one.

A very reasonable Martin copy is made by Saga in the Blueridge guitar line (https://www.sagamusic.com/products/guitars/blueridge/) Yes they are made in China. But wow... they can hold their own against any martin except the customs.

The new V-braced Taylors are quite nice as well.

Andrew White also has a production series which is outstanding! (https://www.andrewwhiteguitars.com/) I would only look at the guitars with four numbers as they are all solid woods. (https://www.andrewwhiteguitars.com/understanding-model-numbers/)

Good luck! Let us know what you get

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Welcome!
I wish you a lot of emotions and pleasure.