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I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
Hello everyone! Last days I was busy with some personal questions and felt very well that energy is really needed to keep the forum alive! However, as well as to maintain life in my room))) But, I seem to be returning to the previous regime and condition and hope that it will be more fun further)))
Recently I myself was thinking about the benefits that this site brings, and today a conversation with one of the users touched on this topic and I decided to bring it up for public discussion:
What do you think? Is CC a benefit for society and for you personally? And if yes, then maybe you will share some specific examples or arguments ... And I hasten to assure everyone at once that no - the site has not hired me yet))))) Therefore, if you think that staying on the site has some drawbacks - it would also be great if you shared this with us)))
In order not to tire with long posts, I will express my opinion either during our discussion, or in a separate post later)) So what is your opinion (both members and hosts)?
Recently I myself was thinking about the benefits that this site brings, and today a conversation with one of the users touched on this topic and I decided to bring it up for public discussion:
What do you think? Is CC a benefit for society and for you personally? And if yes, then maybe you will share some specific examples or arguments ... And I hasten to assure everyone at once that no - the site has not hired me yet))))) Therefore, if you think that staying on the site has some drawbacks - it would also be great if you shared this with us)))
In order not to tire with long posts, I will express my opinion either during our discussion, or in a separate post later)) So what is your opinion (both members and hosts)?
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
and everyone is silent ... Probably, they also think some nasty things about me .... or naughty?...))))
Nobody wants to comment on this? Seems too corny? But after all, many have been here for many years ... After all, there is definitely something useful for each of the regulars, if so much time with different frequency, but come back here .. Is it really so much made by society to believe that it is indecent to be on such a site that many not only hide their faces even from those like themselves, but also do not admit the thought that this can be useful? Or is someone so immersed in addiction that it is inconvenient to admit that despite the fact that he considers being here harmful, he still returns here?
What do you think? What is the reason for such ignorance of the topic, of course, on the part of others (not on your part))))
In fact, nothing kills a forum like threads without a single answer. Indifference is one of the things that scare us the most ....
Nobody wants to comment on this? Seems too corny? But after all, many have been here for many years ... After all, there is definitely something useful for each of the regulars, if so much time with different frequency, but come back here .. Is it really so much made by society to believe that it is indecent to be on such a site that many not only hide their faces even from those like themselves, but also do not admit the thought that this can be useful? Or is someone so immersed in addiction that it is inconvenient to admit that despite the fact that he considers being here harmful, he still returns here?
What do you think? What is the reason for such ignorance of the topic, of course, on the part of others (not on your part))))
In fact, nothing kills a forum like threads without a single answer. Indifference is one of the things that scare us the most ....
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
i think you overdo it...
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
It is possible, of course))) What exactly?
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
I think maybe she's saying you are a bit verbose for this forum.
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
maybe )) and maybe not only she )))
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
sometimes needs and wants are not the same thing
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
Certainly! )) Moreover, it seems to me that these are always different things... Needs appear when we believe that our wants cannot or should not or do not deserve to be satisfied and exist as long as these wants are not satisfied ...
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
Hi Sofia and I am glad you are posting. I have been here for many years now. And I am sure everyone has a different experience. I have mixed feelings about my time here. I have met some very interesting people and also had my "eyes opened" about what people's lives are like in other countries. I think I came here at first with misconceptions about the camhosting business as well. I know this may sound odd..but it has really been an interesting cultural exchange in many ways. Learning a bit of what life is like in Eastern Europe or the Phillipines or Eastern Ukraine has been fun. On the down side I have mixed feelings people finding sexual experiences here. And I know many do NOT come here for that but many many do. I do not judge anyone about this. But there have been many research studies about the positive and negative consequences of finding sex on the internet. A worthy discussion for sure. I will continue to check in periodically to see what is being said here. And thanks for your efforts.
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
RIGHT PETYA !
''Kagdiy drochit kak on hochet ''here-so .....lovely Sofia continion ask here whats u would know -and dont listen such ''PORNO TEACHERS''lol
i here long to .and belive me ppls sometime say to much and dont feel worry about it;
;)
''Kagdiy drochit kak on hochet ''here-so .....lovely Sofia continion ask here whats u would know -and dont listen such ''PORNO TEACHERS''lol
i here long to .and belive me ppls sometime say to much and dont feel worry about it;
;)
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
Just like you are right, lovely Babedoll! ))) I am sure that there are no good or bad things - this is how to help an elderly woman cross the road))))) Someone does not worry about this, but someone scolds himself for visiting this site, and someone scolds others ... In any case, everyone will "drochit`" in their own way, but as a host, I want to understand more of my guests in order to make their stay here as comfortable and pleasant as possible, if I can, of course ....
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
Thanks Pete! It seems to me that you are the only person who is really glad))) I think such topics should be moved from the general forum to my personal one - people who are interested will find it there, and here I will rather write about what I learned from "porn teachers" or, for example, which is better: latex or vinyl? )))) It seems to me that cultural exchange is still taking place here. This topic came to me, among other things, after I got acquainted with other sex entertainment sites and it seems to me that CC really stands out among them. There are, of course, many scientific studies and I think that many, if not all, are familiar with them. I thought maybe users will share their personal findings and observations. And thanks to everyone who shared! )) For myself, for example, I learn here a lot not only about other cultures, but also about myself: reactions and answers to my posts, as well as direct communication in chats every time brings some kind of discovery. Therefore, thank you very much to everyone: those who answer, and those who ignore, and those who criticize and those who support! ))
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
on this site, you can learn to communicate with men, laugh, joke, joke with them, study the behavior of men and apply the knowledge gained in real life
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
Thank you, Annete! Agree with you - there are great opportunities here
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
thanks for your coment too lol
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
I really felt like in heaven))) Thank you very much for such a sincere, open and brave answer! I think this is the best I've read on this forum (including my own posts)))) And a wonderful profile ... Thank you for being with us and getting us the opportunity to feel you
RE: I am a part of the power that always wants evil and always does good... ))))
totaly agree with u Sofia .
she made me smile when i read thats (smile with a good way)
she made me smile when i read thats (smile with a good way)
RE: adobe flash isnt working any more so what do you do to make your cam work?
Try disabling flash in your browser as well as clearing cookies and browser cache. Worked for me. I am using the latest version of chrome. I do have an issue when switching from open vid to one-to-one with cam-to-cam enabled. I emailed support so hopefully they will look into it.
RE: adobe flash isnt working any more so what do you do to make your cam work?
hope my flash will be work too lol
RE: adobe flash isnt working any more so what do you do to make your cam work?
I have given up on making my computer (using Chrome Box, not to be confused with Chrome Book) work here at this site. I have ordered a new Chromebook laptop and hope that will work here. We shall see.
RE: adobe flash isnt working any more so what do you do to make your cam work?
me need try do the same darling. thanks that tell me about it
RE: New text chat
Click on "Open Thread' below the main post. If there are any replies, they will appear. If nothing appears, there are no replies yet.
RE: New text chat
I'm assuming you are talking about here in the forum. If you're talking about in the host's free chat, then I'm not sure to what you are referring.
RE: New text chat
Replying to his question may be futile. Because the answers you give will be in the string that he can not see. Bit of a conundrum but perhaps he will figure it out. Or not.
RE: New text chat
ermmm no, i am referring to when in free chat with model? i can say hello but cannot then see any replies? i am sorry if this was mis leading..
RE: New text chat
maybe the host is not replying to you. Because unless there's some sort of glitch, all replies are visible
RE: New text chat
sometimes I hear the sound that host replies, but I have to click again on the text window before what they wrote appears. Try that and see if it makes the text appear.
Also, if you click away from the text chat and it disappears and you hear the sound, when you move the mouse the chat window reappears but you have to scroll down because it wont automatically scroll down now
Also, if you click away from the text chat and it disappears and you hear the sound, when you move the mouse the chat window reappears but you have to scroll down because it wont automatically scroll down now
Question for the models
Has anybody ever gotten the 10,000 gift? Somebody was talking about it in a different thread and got me wondering if anybody has ever gotten it.
RE: Question for the models
How will the answer "received" affect you? I am sure that none of the girls will not want to confess - tax agents do not sleep anywhere))))) 1, 10, 10,000 - all these are just numbers that mean nothing in themselves. Everything is learned by comparison .... And, believe me, there are people here for whom 10,000 is something the same as ice cream for someone. If you can give, for example, a house to your wife or your mistress for several millions dollars, then why can't you give ice cream to a person who "you have got under your skin"? ...
RE: Question for the models
She was just curious. I am, too. Why does the answer "received" have to affect her or anyone? Curiosity is curiosity... does it have to be justified?
RE: Question for the models
Is Justin a girl? It seems I don't to know sooooo much here yet)))) I apologize in advance for all future obvious questions and naive clarifications (and past ones too, but with a delay))))))) I didn't say that it does have to affect - I asked how? Do I also have the right to curiosity? And since it does not require justification, why do you seek to justify it? )))))
RE: Question for the models
honey, 10 000 is 10 000. hardly could be compared to an ice cream.
RE: Question for the models
If a model here receives a $10,000 gift then that would qualify her to be a sugar baby.
RE: Question for the models
Tnx you Sofia! i think we are all special in something and in the same time ''looks '' the same like one.
i was kidding ofcouse about thats jift - cose i dont like when ppls keep track of other people's money instead of thinking about how to make money yourself (if want to be rich so badly) else dont like covetous ppls. if u understand what i mean.
i was kidding ofcouse about thats jift - cose i dont like when ppls keep track of other people's money instead of thinking about how to make money yourself (if want to be rich so badly) else dont like covetous ppls. if u understand what i mean.
RE: Question for the models
I not only understand, but also agree with every your word))) Although, perhaps, the author of the topic (by the way, the topic that caused a lively discussion!) meant no so much whether there are girls who have received, but whether there are men who are ready to give such a gift? But since the author himself does not seem to have any desire to clarify what he meant, we will not find out. Thanks to him already for creating a theme that brings our forum to life, because, as I noticed, many people like it here))))
As for the topic ... it seems to me that we come too much attention and make the topic of money too taboo and indecent, just like it happens with sex. There are so many "do's and don'ts", "right and wrong" in questions that are rooted in our very essence .... Money was put at the forefront, while they have a very secondary role - a means. We pay so much attention to the means that we often forget about the goal ... Also, they say that money is energy, moreover, the energy of love .... the more open and receptive we are to the energies of love, the more abundantly we attract and let through ourselves and money ... The ability to experience and value feelings for 10,000 appears and appears a natural desire and the ability to give gifts for 10,000. One friend of mine is simply obsessed with the desire to save: almost the only criterion for choosing goods is the availability of discounts, plans a trip on vacation , moreover, it is not yet a fact that she will go, since there is still no money for it at all, but at the same time she is specifically looking for dates when is available tickets in econom-class train to make it cheaper))) And when I tell her - that money must still come in any case.. they will come in the volume that you plan for yourself, that you allow yourself ... this is not perceived at all or is practically a revelation and with great difficulty it reaches a person that only she limits herself)))) It seems to me that to a large extent this could be the cause of covety .... I somehow got carried away by verbiage again and, probably, moved away from the topic, but I wanted to share these thoughts in connection with the discussion. ...
As for the topic ... it seems to me that we come too much attention and make the topic of money too taboo and indecent, just like it happens with sex. There are so many "do's and don'ts", "right and wrong" in questions that are rooted in our very essence .... Money was put at the forefront, while they have a very secondary role - a means. We pay so much attention to the means that we often forget about the goal ... Also, they say that money is energy, moreover, the energy of love .... the more open and receptive we are to the energies of love, the more abundantly we attract and let through ourselves and money ... The ability to experience and value feelings for 10,000 appears and appears a natural desire and the ability to give gifts for 10,000. One friend of mine is simply obsessed with the desire to save: almost the only criterion for choosing goods is the availability of discounts, plans a trip on vacation , moreover, it is not yet a fact that she will go, since there is still no money for it at all, but at the same time she is specifically looking for dates when is available tickets in econom-class train to make it cheaper))) And when I tell her - that money must still come in any case.. they will come in the volume that you plan for yourself, that you allow yourself ... this is not perceived at all or is practically a revelation and with great difficulty it reaches a person that only she limits herself)))) It seems to me that to a large extent this could be the cause of covety .... I somehow got carried away by verbiage again and, probably, moved away from the topic, but I wanted to share these thoughts in connection with the discussion. ...
RE: Question for the models
i understand about whats u want to share .
and dont be shy to tell all whats yu want to say - thats good and kind from u ,
:) tnx for ur enerjy and for ur time
and dont be shy to tell all whats yu want to say - thats good and kind from u ,
:) tnx for ur enerjy and for ur time
RE: Question for the models
I meant to give the $10,000 gift, but for some reason the cursor just kept going to $10 gift. Oh well, so much for good intentions. haha
RE: Question for the models
no i not yet hope then me will be 100 years old i receive 10 000 gifts from somebody lol
Sexy Seductress
Goddess Nikki is the best Seductress Her voice is like a Siren calling you to fall before you know it you are wrapped in her web o LUST loosing your will mind n Soul FALLING DEEPER into Hell Richard Howell
RE: Sexy Seductress
she is the best teacher of seduction and sin. she enticed to deny the trinity faith and embrace Hell Satan and all the Dark Angels Lexusis258 is the most seductive if them i am banned from the temple banned from church locked out of Heaven i am a Dark Priest in Hell serving Satan Hell and all Dark Angels Goddess Nikki --- Lexusis250
A little about us...
Hello! It's me again))) As promised, I will try to be as laconic as possible)))) I propose to go a little beyond the scope of this site, although ..... it may not be needed))
Who watched the movie "The Shack" (2017) or maybe be read a book by William Paul Young (the film is its adaptation)? And I can recommend both read and see - various points attract attention. I am very interested in your opinions and reviews and I am shure that it could be very usefull theme
Who watched the movie "The Shack" (2017) or maybe be read a book by William Paul Young (the film is its adaptation)? And I can recommend both read and see - various points attract attention. I am very interested in your opinions and reviews and I am shure that it could be very usefull theme
RE: A little about us...
Hello to u too there Sofia,let me tell you i didn't finish the movie as i didn't find that interesting maybe i should try again?But let me tell you that i saw Fractured if we are on movies subject,if you didn't already saw it it's a great movie ;)
RE: A little about us...
Yes, Tanya, I know a few people who didn't find this movie interesting either. At least you already know about it ... You will return to it when your time comes. I can't tell you that you need to watch it now. But I will try to see the Fractured in the near future. I haven't watched it - in fact, I'm not very good at cinema. Thank you! ))
RE: A little about us...
Hehehe well im honest and also a movies fan especially SF/Horror grrrr fan so when u got time and also Netflix i really recommend Fractured as the end is a big surprise and im sure you will enjoy it ;) *-*
RE: A little about us...
Glad to hear and good for you Sofia hope you will love it :)enjoy it,me binge watching Monk,i know nobody asked me :)))
RE: A little about us...
just finished watching ... It's scary to even think to what we bring each other, and ourselves too ...
RE: A little about us...
Yep was scary for me too,hope no bad blood against me for telling you about that movie ;)but to recover yourself from that,when got time i recommend u Monk police-action-comedy series to put a smile on that face as i'm sure we all need *-*.Cheers
RE: A little about us...
Thank you for diluting my boringness with your positive! We all need this for sure)))))) I am grateful to you for recommending this film! But for me it "describes" more, and the the Shack "explains." But ... it seems that no one but you and I care about this)))) Well, okay))) Let's hope everyone is busy enjoying each other))))))
RE: A little about us...
My pleasure you're too kind too :),my pleasure to talk/chat something that i like/love with good people/hosts when have the free time *-**-*
Thread on gift giving.....
I have two comments.
1. I fail to see why you can't give a gift instantly to women in the "Friends" or "Marriage/Long term" categories. In the more adult categories you can instantly grant a gift while in paid chat.
2. The smallest gift you can give is $10 which is not a lot but I think if they bumped it down to $5 overall the chat hosts would get more. If a guy has to pick between $10 and zero they may just not give a gift.
Neither here nor there but I have noticed that the top amount is $10,000. Wow!
1. I fail to see why you can't give a gift instantly to women in the "Friends" or "Marriage/Long term" categories. In the more adult categories you can instantly grant a gift while in paid chat.
2. The smallest gift you can give is $10 which is not a lot but I think if they bumped it down to $5 overall the chat hosts would get more. If a guy has to pick between $10 and zero they may just not give a gift.
Neither here nor there but I have noticed that the top amount is $10,000. Wow!
Individual or Studio
In the discussions, I read something that piqued my personal interest ... Someone said that there are chathosts that work independently, and there are those that work through studios. Could you share the pros and cons of each status (I am ineterested in the opinions of both men and girls). What is the role of the studio? How do they help their chathosts?
RE: Individual or Studio
well from my experience..i preferred girls that do not work in a studio
i have had the situation when i was in a video with a host in a studio a few days later in chat..another host knew something about me that she shouldnt have known. so that is one negative about studio..girls talk :)
i personally do like host that works for herself..thats just how i would like it for all girls..but i know its not possible. and also most studio girls are working on many sites so when you go to video..sometimes you can hear it..which is kind of annoying but thats just how it is :)
anways my 2 cents good luck
i have had the situation when i was in a video with a host in a studio a few days later in chat..another host knew something about me that she shouldnt have known. so that is one negative about studio..girls talk :)
i personally do like host that works for herself..thats just how i would like it for all girls..but i know its not possible. and also most studio girls are working on many sites so when you go to video..sometimes you can hear it..which is kind of annoying but thats just how it is :)
anways my 2 cents good luck
RE: Individual or Studio
Independent girls work multiple sites, too, Rog.
I agree about the "girl talk" issue -- that is both annoying and inappropriate, and in the few instances where I encountered it, it ended my visits with that particular host.
That said, I, for one, have had enjoyable experiences, with both studio and non-studio hosts, I can't say one is better than the other.
The main two issues I see with studio, is that the profiles are often cookie cutters, and the host often has no idea what she has "promised." The other issue is the studios tend to be more come-and-go, whereas the independents, in my observation, tend toward longer tenure working.
I agree about the "girl talk" issue -- that is both annoying and inappropriate, and in the few instances where I encountered it, it ended my visits with that particular host.
That said, I, for one, have had enjoyable experiences, with both studio and non-studio hosts, I can't say one is better than the other.
The main two issues I see with studio, is that the profiles are often cookie cutters, and the host often has no idea what she has "promised." The other issue is the studios tend to be more come-and-go, whereas the independents, in my observation, tend toward longer tenure working.
RE: Individual or Studio
There are no cons in working from home in my opinion ! only pros !
I've been an independent model on here for many years. You are your own boss, you make the rules, the scheduale, plus, you don't share your cash with anyone !
All my members tell me they appreciate more a model that works from home, because of the privacy, we all know by now that in studios there is no such thing as privacy, and the trainers that moderate the girls have they're eyes on both the girls and what they do with the members at all time ..
Girls at home have more personality, we are more relaxed , we dont see it as work ;)
I've been an independent model on here for many years. You are your own boss, you make the rules, the scheduale, plus, you don't share your cash with anyone !
All my members tell me they appreciate more a model that works from home, because of the privacy, we all know by now that in studios there is no such thing as privacy, and the trainers that moderate the girls have they're eyes on both the girls and what they do with the members at all time ..
Girls at home have more personality, we are more relaxed , we dont see it as work ;)
RE: Individual or Studio
If the host is as sharp as Myles, there's no downside to working from home at all :)
RE: Individual or Studio
You have right with all u said and i would never switch from my lovely homework to studios EVER,i rather work harder and make my space like a studio place with all the tules need it and be my own Boss then working for studios.Not my cup of tea Studios either
RE: Individual or Studio
Thank you, Myles and Tanja! I understand what you are talking about? )))))
RE: Individual or Studio
I prefer knowing what I spend goes to the host as much as possible, so working at home would be better for them. Also you are less likely to hear other hosts talking while you are visiting a host, that can be annoying. And seeing the shadows of other hosts walking past behind the camera is distracting also. Much better for hosts at home.
RE: Individual or Studio
Nothing against the studios, I am sure they have benefits for their girls, but I find chats with girls in studios so much more scripted. Its true, the quality seems to be better in studios but I find overall that the experience with independent girls is much more natural and that makes it it more enjoyable for me
RE: Individual or Studio
Thank you for your opinion! by the way, there is a high probability of being heard by the studios and perhaps they will become even better)))
RE: Individual or Studio
Thank you! You brought up a very interesting topic - professionalism in this matter! It seems, but what kind of professionalism can there be? Is this a profession?! But yes, you can treat this as entertainment, or you can treat it as work, as serving ... It is interesting: what men like more - when the chathost professionally works to satisfy the interests of a man or when she herself enjoys what is happening?)))
RE: Individual or Studio
It's the attitude, more than the so-called professionalism :) The pros are quite few, while the time wasters, the chathosts who have a list of excuses or that simply copied/pasted their profile and are unwilling to move from their swivel chair even in 121 session exist both in "softcore" and "hardcore" categories.
RE: Individual or Studio
The primary benefits, as I see them, is that the studio generally provides and maintains the working environment and the equipment (which many cannot afford) as well as handles all the paperwork and income payouts.
The primary con, as I see it: in addition to CC's share of the income, the studio boss also has his/her share, thus greatly reducing the camgirl's share. Another con, is the host would have less discretion as to her time working, and is answerable to a boss.
The primary con, as I see it: in addition to CC's share of the income, the studio boss also has his/her share, thus greatly reducing the camgirl's share. Another con, is the host would have less discretion as to her time working, and is answerable to a boss.
RE: Individual or Studio
Thank you, ThePhoenixRises, for the informal comments and your interest in the topics))) Maybe thanks to you and other site users like you, we will revive the forum? ))))
Based on your comments and the rest of the opinions expressed, I personally got the impression that there is no particular difference, since everything is possible, both in one group and in another and more and more depends on personality of the host itself. Since the host can always find out what is written in his profile and initiate changes in the description, if necessary, the host in the studio can show respect for it guests and respect confidentiality, bosses can show respect for the employees and their guests by creating for them secluded workplaces ... I think that everyone is just at the right time in the right place for themselves (both hosts and men). The duration of the host's work also depends, probably, more on her awareness when deciding to try herself in this ... In general, thanks to all the comments, I realized a fairly high degree of obviousness of this topic)) Once again, thanks! )))
Based on your comments and the rest of the opinions expressed, I personally got the impression that there is no particular difference, since everything is possible, both in one group and in another and more and more depends on personality of the host itself. Since the host can always find out what is written in his profile and initiate changes in the description, if necessary, the host in the studio can show respect for it guests and respect confidentiality, bosses can show respect for the employees and their guests by creating for them secluded workplaces ... I think that everyone is just at the right time in the right place for themselves (both hosts and men). The duration of the host's work also depends, probably, more on her awareness when deciding to try herself in this ... In general, thanks to all the comments, I realized a fairly high degree of obviousness of this topic)) Once again, thanks! )))
RE: Individual or Studio
Well...this is only my personal take on this... but I would prefer...a girl that is working from her own home. i think that she is more independent of how she chooses to work ,how when ,and where. She can set her own standards...I see girls obviously working from the same studio...where their profile is EXACTLY the same...a standard form...handed out to whoever works there...with NO...input from the individual girl herself...seems more like a factory...than a studio.. I think a model working on this site should be able to at least put some of her own personality into their own profile which may or may not be effective in earning them more money.I tend to exit those...for that reason. I do think that understandably some girls do not have the ability to work from their home...for many reasons... including the cost of equipment..etc. and that is how they are able to work and make their money...I'm not saying that I wouldn't visit someone in a studio...but my first preference is a model working from home under her own rules...and independence. Thank You...
RE: Individual or Studio
Thank you! For sincerely sharing your opinion with us. I hope that your answer, together with the answers of other users, will lead to better profiles and approaches to organizing the work of hosts.
Recorded Video - ksubbw
Can someone tell me for the love of god why this account has not been banned? Its blatantly a recorded video - Chathost: ksubbw
I have warned admin about it, I am 99.9% sure its a recorded video...
I have warned admin about it, I am 99.9% sure its a recorded video...
RE: Recorded Video - ksubbw
yeah its recorded...i asked her to raise hand..and she disconnected :)
RE: Recorded Video - ksubbw
yeah cc took action and blacklisted her....but your suspicions was correct
RE: Recorded Video - ksubbw
there are several here and at other sites that appear to be a video.
Multinamemakers
Hi, there! Time flies with crazy speed (Internet would work at such a speed!))). Is it for you too? Already three days of this new happy year! With whom has happiness happened already? )))))
And I did promise a new topic .... about a lot of names of one user.... What do you think, what percentage of multinamemakers is engaged here? And what is the maximum number of names you know for one person? And what is more interesting - under the influence of what motives ?! Maybe it's like by analogy with credit cards: you emptied one, and draw up the next one in another bank)))))) You ruined your relationship with a chathost under one name, start over under another? ))) Like a cat - 9 lives are obtained)))
How are these names used? Are these different behaviors under different names and, accordingly, different target audiences? Are these memory problems and sudden insights and passwords to old accounts dreamed of in a dream? )) Is this the well-known pathological jealousy and the desire to control everything and everyone?
And question to girls - how do you find out such poly-names? How do you feel about this?
So, the topic at first glance is nothing special, but depending on your answers, it seems to me that it can become quite deep ...
And I did promise a new topic .... about a lot of names of one user.... What do you think, what percentage of multinamemakers is engaged here? And what is the maximum number of names you know for one person? And what is more interesting - under the influence of what motives ?! Maybe it's like by analogy with credit cards: you emptied one, and draw up the next one in another bank)))))) You ruined your relationship with a chathost under one name, start over under another? ))) Like a cat - 9 lives are obtained)))
How are these names used? Are these different behaviors under different names and, accordingly, different target audiences? Are these memory problems and sudden insights and passwords to old accounts dreamed of in a dream? )) Is this the well-known pathological jealousy and the desire to control everything and everyone?
And question to girls - how do you find out such poly-names? How do you feel about this?
So, the topic at first glance is nothing special, but depending on your answers, it seems to me that it can become quite deep ...
RE: Multinamemakers
Dear SofiaYinYang,
I hereby nominate you for the Editor in Chief of the General Forum. And this is a good thing.
Regarding why have more than one nick name let me give you just one example of how it is useful. I once had a vid with a host who like myself also participated frequently in the Community Chat Room. The vid experience for me was not a good one. So of course I did not wish to do another vid with this camhost. It was like having a bad date. However every time the host saw my name in the Community Chat room she would harass me publicly with comments about why I did not return to her vid. She would make comments like:
"Why do you not vid me? Am I ugly?"
"Are you vidding someone else?"
"You are a cheap bastard....why do you not vid me again."
She was relentless.
It was as if because I had one vid with her she owned me.
A very experienced host suggested to me that I have one name for use in the Community Chat Room and one for vidding. This was good advice. That way I can go to the Community Chat room and enjoy casual conversation without being the target of a jealous or possessive host. There are other reasons for members to have more than one name I am sure.
I hereby nominate you for the Editor in Chief of the General Forum. And this is a good thing.
Regarding why have more than one nick name let me give you just one example of how it is useful. I once had a vid with a host who like myself also participated frequently in the Community Chat Room. The vid experience for me was not a good one. So of course I did not wish to do another vid with this camhost. It was like having a bad date. However every time the host saw my name in the Community Chat room she would harass me publicly with comments about why I did not return to her vid. She would make comments like:
"Why do you not vid me? Am I ugly?"
"Are you vidding someone else?"
"You are a cheap bastard....why do you not vid me again."
She was relentless.
It was as if because I had one vid with her she owned me.
A very experienced host suggested to me that I have one name for use in the Community Chat Room and one for vidding. This was good advice. That way I can go to the Community Chat room and enjoy casual conversation without being the target of a jealous or possessive host. There are other reasons for members to have more than one name I am sure.
RE: Multinamemakers
If you are going to do what Pete did, may I suggest that you don't use "ADifferentPete" as your alternate nickname.
RE: Multinamemakers
Thanks Pete! ))) Do you think the site should hire me? )))) I really like our discussions and I hope that over time, a much larger number of users will allow us to find out their opinions on a variety of issues)))
As for the situation you described, I express my sympathy for you and not only for you. Although .... it seems to me that for the other participants it might even seemed funny! ))) However, as for you too - such persistence in an effort to get your attention could even flatter! )) What touched you so much? ;-) Perhaps you let her know during the chat that you like such wording? ;-)) "Berate me! Insult me! Oh, yes, baby!" ))))))
On the other hand, modern marketing strategies have an impact .... What are offered to us in commercials? "Do you feel discomfort from overeating fatty and junk food ?! Continue to rape yourself and shove into yourself what you can't even look at already, because now you have our wonderful enzymes and they should be used !!!!" Perhaps the chathost was also looking for an opportunity to show you some kind of antidote to bad chats? ))) Perhaps, she had a different marketing strategy - to force you to create a second account and thus double her earning opportunities - because now she can communicate already with not one, but two users))))) Oh! now the meaning of the rule has reached me - chat hosts receive bonuses if they contribute to the registration of new users, but in the event that the registered user has not previously been a user of the site. This wording seemed strange to me, but now I am beginning to understand that it is very reasonable! ))))
But on the third hand ))) by the rules of the chat rude behavior and insulting users are prohibited. Why didn't you turn to the moderator to block the chathost and thus ensure yourself a further pleasant pastime on the site?
PS It seems to me that soon they will start blocking me, I am becoming more and more wordy! ))) Sorry, I promise to improve myself)))
As for the situation you described, I express my sympathy for you and not only for you. Although .... it seems to me that for the other participants it might even seemed funny! ))) However, as for you too - such persistence in an effort to get your attention could even flatter! )) What touched you so much? ;-) Perhaps you let her know during the chat that you like such wording? ;-)) "Berate me! Insult me! Oh, yes, baby!" ))))))
On the other hand, modern marketing strategies have an impact .... What are offered to us in commercials? "Do you feel discomfort from overeating fatty and junk food ?! Continue to rape yourself and shove into yourself what you can't even look at already, because now you have our wonderful enzymes and they should be used !!!!" Perhaps the chathost was also looking for an opportunity to show you some kind of antidote to bad chats? ))) Perhaps, she had a different marketing strategy - to force you to create a second account and thus double her earning opportunities - because now she can communicate already with not one, but two users))))) Oh! now the meaning of the rule has reached me - chat hosts receive bonuses if they contribute to the registration of new users, but in the event that the registered user has not previously been a user of the site. This wording seemed strange to me, but now I am beginning to understand that it is very reasonable! ))))
But on the third hand ))) by the rules of the chat rude behavior and insulting users are prohibited. Why didn't you turn to the moderator to block the chathost and thus ensure yourself a further pleasant pastime on the site?
PS It seems to me that soon they will start blocking me, I am becoming more and more wordy! ))) Sorry, I promise to improve myself)))
RE: Multinamemakers
I doubt that CC will block you. Although in the past I had many posts to the discussion board deleted. This is not a free press here. And yes...I think CC should hire you!. And perhaps they have already. This General Forum has been dead for a long time. Perhaps you have the energy and style to revive it. To be honest the Viewers Only Forum is not very interesting to many of us. It usually is a member wondering where a favorite host vanished to or some guy feeding their fetish fantasies. By the way......here is a topic for you: No host stays here forever.
By and large camhosting is not a dream job for most women. They come out of a desire to make money of course. Combine that with for most men sexual allure is the driving force behind their membership. Many men can not appreciate the allures of a mature woman and the hosts move on in life to raising families and other jobs. Although apparently some of us members (Me for example,, :) stay almost forever.
By and large camhosting is not a dream job for most women. They come out of a desire to make money of course. Combine that with for most men sexual allure is the driving force behind their membership. Many men can not appreciate the allures of a mature woman and the hosts move on in life to raising families and other jobs. Although apparently some of us members (Me for example,, :) stay almost forever.
Do you want or is it necessary to revive the General Forum?
Well, even if they have already done it, then I don't know anything about it either))))
Pete, you touched on even more than one topic! The first is the reanimation of the general forum ... For me alone, this task, of course, is beyond my power, but we all can easily cope with it. Do we all need it? Let's give our opinions. Do you need a general forum? And what are your expectations from it? What needs can it satisfy? It seems to me that there are three camps on this issue and each of them can make its own contribution in case of interest. The first is the administration of the site itself - if they consider the general forum as one of the chips that attract and retain users on the site (keeping the principle from deleting and keeping their attention before logging out and in these few minutes some host has the opportunity to lure this user into chat)))) Also, this way can show the social responsibility of the site, since we can discuss on the forum many issues that are relevant to the site's audience, for example, online dependence ... If it seems to administration interesting, it has a powerful resource (from restructuring the forum and ending with various incentive contests and other things). Well, naturally, the life of the forum directly depends on the camp of members and the camp of chathostes. Let's speak out who is attracted by the forum and why? Even if you are used to just reading messages on the forum - write now about it and why you are interested in it? Or maybe it will be easier and better to invite several users to my room for tea or to my personal forum and not bore the rest of the audience? )))
For me personally, the general forum gives the feeling of the presence of life on the site. When scattered users are knocking to you is one feeling, but when there is some sense of community - here you want to get involved, you want to share something ... and of course, discussions by themselves often give rise to very interesting conclusions and discoveries. The online chat of the community is not very convenient for me personally, since, unfortunately, I am not very good at English and cannot keep up with the pace of general chat. And sometimes there are periods when you enter the chat, and there is silence ..... "only the dead with braids stand along the roads"))) Something like this .... I will single out this issue as a separate topic in this discussion. And I will also highlight the second question ...
Pete, you touched on even more than one topic! The first is the reanimation of the general forum ... For me alone, this task, of course, is beyond my power, but we all can easily cope with it. Do we all need it? Let's give our opinions. Do you need a general forum? And what are your expectations from it? What needs can it satisfy? It seems to me that there are three camps on this issue and each of them can make its own contribution in case of interest. The first is the administration of the site itself - if they consider the general forum as one of the chips that attract and retain users on the site (keeping the principle from deleting and keeping their attention before logging out and in these few minutes some host has the opportunity to lure this user into chat)))) Also, this way can show the social responsibility of the site, since we can discuss on the forum many issues that are relevant to the site's audience, for example, online dependence ... If it seems to administration interesting, it has a powerful resource (from restructuring the forum and ending with various incentive contests and other things). Well, naturally, the life of the forum directly depends on the camp of members and the camp of chathostes. Let's speak out who is attracted by the forum and why? Even if you are used to just reading messages on the forum - write now about it and why you are interested in it? Or maybe it will be easier and better to invite several users to my room for tea or to my personal forum and not bore the rest of the audience? )))
For me personally, the general forum gives the feeling of the presence of life on the site. When scattered users are knocking to you is one feeling, but when there is some sense of community - here you want to get involved, you want to share something ... and of course, discussions by themselves often give rise to very interesting conclusions and discoveries. The online chat of the community is not very convenient for me personally, since, unfortunately, I am not very good at English and cannot keep up with the pace of general chat. And sometimes there are periods when you enter the chat, and there is silence ..... "only the dead with braids stand along the roads"))) Something like this .... I will single out this issue as a separate topic in this discussion. And I will also highlight the second question ...
Is it a dream job?
"Many men can not appreciate the allures of a mature woman and the hosts move".... in Editor in Chief of the General Forum or in life to raising families and other jobs )))))))))))
I congratulate and sincerely glad for everyone who went into life to raise a family - after all, work is for us and not us for work)))
Of course, nothing is eternal ... I think that the members here also do not always settle for life. And what about the dream job and what brought chathosts to this site - can chathosts share with us their pain and delight, if there is a desire?
I personally share the opinion: "Find a job you like and you won't have to work a day." Of course, initially the need to earn money brought me here, but this is much more than earnings for me... And let some disappointed memebers forgive me, but I'm not ready to sell anything here, although, of course, I'm not ready to engage in exclusively charity work either )))) But I feel real pleasure when every time my members and I create some special common atmosphere and I think that this pleasure is passed on to my beloved members and this, as it seems to me, is the most valuable for everyone participants in what is happening...
Or maybe go to the sellers and not tire people with this verbiage? )))))
I congratulate and sincerely glad for everyone who went into life to raise a family - after all, work is for us and not us for work)))
Of course, nothing is eternal ... I think that the members here also do not always settle for life. And what about the dream job and what brought chathosts to this site - can chathosts share with us their pain and delight, if there is a desire?
I personally share the opinion: "Find a job you like and you won't have to work a day." Of course, initially the need to earn money brought me here, but this is much more than earnings for me... And let some disappointed memebers forgive me, but I'm not ready to sell anything here, although, of course, I'm not ready to engage in exclusively charity work either )))) But I feel real pleasure when every time my members and I create some special common atmosphere and I think that this pleasure is passed on to my beloved members and this, as it seems to me, is the most valuable for everyone participants in what is happening...
Or maybe go to the sellers and not tire people with this verbiage? )))))
RE: Is it a dream job?
Hope for it! Thank you) Are YOU interested in participation in such discussions? I feel that you are already an experienced chat host, an interesting personality and your messages will always be valuable and pleasant for users and for me in particular)))
RE: Is it a dream job?
yes, I've been on the site for a long time)
will soon be 9 years old. Yes, I am always very interested in communicating with pleasant and not mad people. Sometimes the essence is not even important, just mutual contact can give a lot.
I will be glad to meet and talk with u here if u dont mind
.and MERRY CHRISTMAS To u dear Sofia!
will soon be 9 years old. Yes, I am always very interested in communicating with pleasant and not mad people. Sometimes the essence is not even important, just mutual contact can give a lot.
I will be glad to meet and talk with u here if u dont mind
.and MERRY CHRISTMAS To u dear Sofia!
RE: Is it a dream job?
I will be happy! ))) Can chathosts communicate directly on this site or in forums and community chats only? Thank you for wishes! And I guess that Merry Christmas for you too? ))))
RE: Is it a dream job?
hosts talk usualy in open chat or here on forum
in chat they can chating to privat messange if they want noone read they -but also can chating in open -with everyone in same time
in chat they can chating to privat messange if they want noone read they -but also can chating in open -with everyone in same time
RE: Multinamemakers
i'm sure guys make nicknames for different purposes)) one guy made a new nickname, called me and said "do you remember the guys who call you?" I said yes. and then he said "i called you before, guess who I am" and i was like hmmmmmm uuuuummm but i got it in the end. it was fun
P.S. but if you know me and want to do that too, dont do it. it takes a lot of time
P.S. but if you know me and want to do that too, dont do it. it takes a lot of time
RE: Multinamemakers
Thank you for participating! That is, while the girls agree that poly-name is funny. Well, in the end - it's still not polygamy))))
RE: Multinamemakers
this is so funny ! i had a few members who tried to come see me under different nicknames.. i knew it right away. Each of my members has a way of typing..they use certain words or expressions that are unique and i recognize them right away. Sometimes when you cant see someone on cam and they only write, it leaves you space to pay more attention to other things such as the way of someone is typing. if you pay close attention to how and what your members say you can see it ;) Also almost everyone has a very unique set of requests, even tho they think its common :))
RE: Multinamemakers
yes, you're right))) i know the typing style of some guys too, but it's not always easy))
RE: Multinamemakers
Wow! One more cat lover!!! Do you use multiple nicknames too? ))) I wonder if there is someone here who communicates under only one nickname? )) Can chat hosts create multiple profiles for themselves too? )))
RE: Multinamemakers
Thank you for answering! I agree... but sometimes these ways of typing are so similar and coincide in time that only formal caution stops from throwing myself on the neck to the first comer))))
RE: Multinamemakers
I am also sure that this is possible! I think it all depends on the goals of the man - someone wants to remain unrecognized, and someone wants to be recognized ... And someone (like xxbabydollxx) wants to play her own game))))
RE: Multinamemakers
some guys come with different nicknames and write with similar signs, playing in ''cat and mouse ''with me, at one point I got so tired of this game that I decided to start my game. no matter how hard the guys try to hint to me - until the last time I pretend that I see him for the first time - it annoys some - but I get fun on my own way/
and now it is not me, but they are once not sure whether I recognized them or not.
and now it is not me, but they are once not sure whether I recognized them or not.
RE: Multinamemakers
I have known chat hosts who have had 4 different names here. I think it's funny because they pretty much ran the gamut from marriage/long term all the way to instant action. I guess she was pretty much down for anything.
I would think it would be confusing but that's none of my business.
I would think it would be confusing but that's none of my business.
RE: Multinamemakers
That is, we can register a new name in each category... Why isn't this your business, Paul? Isn't everything that happens here for your pleasure?
Taxi Sex
Has any girl here ever had sex in the back seat of a taxicab? If so tell us about it.
RE: Taxi Sex
I didin t had sex but I was close .I had a meeting with a hot guy attraction was so big ,he started kissing me and licking my ears alot ....the taxi driver been waching in the mirror lool ...But he couldn t stop licking my ears ....It was HOT !
RE: Taxi Sex
Really interesting !!! An ambiguous situation... on the one hand it is difficult to get into, but on the other hand - additional stimulation...)))))
RE: Happy New Year!
Thank you! ))) And accept my sincere congratulations too!
Already now, a large part of our lives is associated with pleasure. I wish everyone that everything else would be totally imbued with pleasure, despite all modern circumstances. Enjoying the smile of a loved one, enjoying the freshness of the winter air or the hot touch of the sun, enjoying success and challenges in work, enjoying planning, making and raising children, enjoying every breath and sigh, every millimeter of the visible and every anticipation of the invisible ... I wish you simply dissolve in pleasure ... Happy New Year!!!!
Already now, a large part of our lives is associated with pleasure. I wish everyone that everything else would be totally imbued with pleasure, despite all modern circumstances. Enjoying the smile of a loved one, enjoying the freshness of the winter air or the hot touch of the sun, enjoying success and challenges in work, enjoying planning, making and raising children, enjoying every breath and sigh, every millimeter of the visible and every anticipation of the invisible ... I wish you simply dissolve in pleasure ... Happy New Year!!!!
RE: Happy New Year!
Happy New Year ! New year...New adventures .Cheers to health, happiness, and prosperity in 2021!
RE: Happy New Year!
Happy New Year best wishes,hugs,healthy,good people and bunch luck to all xxx
Personal forums and needs
Sorry, but I have a new question)) Does anyone read the girls' personal forums? Members, are you interested in reading it? Or just as an opportunity for us to speak out in the forum so that we are less boring you with our thoughts in the chat? )))) What are, members, your interests in general? I propose to brainstorm in this thread and collect various answer options (and in another theme we could make a voting))) - what is interesting to you in girls and their profiles, what do you pay attention to when you decide to enter a girl's video chat or not? What is the ratio of your visits to categories Adult and Non Adult? Why do you go to video chats Non Adult - what do you expect to get there? And no! )))) This is not a banal poll))) Several interlocutors led me to create this post - at first there was a dispute or even rivalry with them, and then the thought came that they were not competing, but they just wanted to satisfy some of their needs .... So I wanted to learn more about the needs)))) And girls! Have you had any funny cases with the needs of men? )))) Hope this theme will become interesting and funny for everyone )))
RE: Personal forums and needs
it must be difficult for girls dealing with different languages.. voice is important to me.. it may be some verbal phrases combined with written chat might do the trick
RE: Personal forums and needs
thanks for your sincere answer! I will try not to overuse, but I will take every opportunity to apply)))
RE: Personal forums and needs
i read the personal forums..gives you an idea on what to expect...also about non adult/adult...in my experience its all the same if you know what i mean....good luck..have fun :)
RE: Personal forums and needs
Thanks for the unexpected idea! I would never have such thought! )))) Thank you for your wishes! And I want to wish you that in the future, even within the same category, you will never meet the same thing and that each of your video sessions will always be something special! If you know what I mean..... )))))
RE: Personal forums and needs
So many questions there. It is difficult to know where to start. But I think many of us read profiles and what hosts or their studios write there. I have always considered it one of key marketing methods for the camhost as well as setting up parameters on what she (or he, or he/she) will do or not do. A few years back I used to help the occasional host write theirs. It was amusing playing around with the words and to think about what would entice people to vid and what has no significant effect. There are some things end up in hosts forums that are common but self evident, such as indicating the host hates rude men. And a profile that has nothing but various emoticons leaves a bit to be desired I think. It takes energy and creativity in both photographs and words to create a unique profile that lures a customer in. Thanks for the post on general forum. I suspect people's comments will vary.
RE: Personal forums and needs
Thank you, Pete, for such a detailed answer! Your real name, by any chance, not Karl?))) And thanks again to all who answered for thoughtful answers, not formal replies. With every answer on the forum and with every new guest, I am convinced that here you can find really interesting communication with deep contact, and not just and not only have fun. And yes, I agree that creating texts for a profile is a very exciting experience .... at first - the fear of a blank sheet, but then you get carried away and it is already difficult to stop))) however, as with messages in the forum ))). It is a little difficult to fit into a system where there is no full access to the audience - on the one hand, it is even interesting and you can relax - because nothing seems to depend on you (the submission almost which we are discussing))), and on the other hand, you want to feel the audience, exchange energies ... the forum gives such a feeling. Thank you to everyone of you and I love you all)))
RE: Personal forums and needs
Hi. My real name is not Karl. I know how odd this will appear but my real name is Peter or Pete. Weird huh? A person using their given name is not the norm here. Perhaps it shows a lack of imagination on my part. :)
RE: Personal forums and needs
or really smart ! because noweone would expect you to use your real name ;)
RE: Personal forums and needs
Well, to be honest, I was hinting at Charles IX, and never suspected you of cunning or training the imagination)))) I think that on your part this is more likely a manifestation of the recently discussed free will )))) After all, this is just a name and not an imprint of the retina))))) And they say that the sound of your own name is one of the most pleasant things for a person, and we are all here for this ...
RE: Personal forums and needs
And of course so many members and some hosts have multiple names at CC. It can get very confusing sometimes.
Happy New Year to you and thanks for the postings. They are fun.
Happy New Year to you and thanks for the postings. They are fun.
RE: Personal forums and needs
That is, Pete9 and Doug655.... can they be one person? )))) It's funny))))) Thank you and everyone who answers and participates in discussions, including the girls, although they are not yet very actively involved)) Happy New Year to all of you and all of us!
RE: Personal forums and needs
Pete9 and Doug655 are not the same person. I am sure Doug will be happy not to be confused with me. :)
There are good reasons to have more than on name in CC though. A topic for another discussion perhaps.
There are good reasons to have more than on name in CC though. A topic for another discussion perhaps.
RE: Personal forums and needs
Prankster !!!! You're right! We will still have something to do in the new year! ))) I promiss to create a new discussion! But this will be after the New Year)))) There is still a lot to be done this year! At least not to fall for the provocations of some pranksters)))))
RE: Personal forums and needs
I agree with Pete. A personal profile/forum gives a host a way to manage expectations. The same holds true of the distinction between Adult and Non-adult categories. An Adult category designation automatically creates a "hardening" of expectations, yet a Non-adult host may entice her (or his) members with every tool in the tool-box, at least in my experience. And I always read profiles, and there are quite a few to admire.
I'm sure Pete has lured me into a host's room on occasion...
I'm sure Pete has lured me into a host's room on occasion...
RE: Personal forums and needs
Thank you very much! I think, thanks to the answers here, I am just beginning to understand the true characteristics of the category Non Adult ))))
RE: Personal forums and needs
lol....
plz say again thats , (hahaha)
u do ythats very cute 3 TIMES:D
plz say again thats , (hahaha)
u do ythats very cute 3 TIMES:D
RE: Personal forums and needs
You don't need to apologize))) This is actually cute - I'm already starting to believe that I really can still )))))))))))))))))
RE: Personal forums and needs
this is real manly from your side!(many shy ask sorry on publick)
respectfully!
respectfully!
RE: Personal forums and needs
I felt it based on your previous comments and I am not offended))) it really refreshed the atmosphere in this thread)) You know, I even wanted to thank you for those "mind fuck" - my guests liked it so much that they began to deal with it with even greater zeal and dedication! )))))))
RE: Personal forums and needs
I visit non-adult video chat to do just that - chat. Therefore I look at the profile text closely. It does not matter what the host says - all I am looking for is to see if she has a good command of English. No text or a profile that is a generic copy and paste from a studio then no visit as long chats using a translating program are tedious. As to photos - I want to see who I will be chatting with. No face photo - no visit.
RE: Personal forums and needs
RE: Personal forums and needs
Thanks for the answer! ) I met a connoisseur of just chat here! 2021 is definitely a happy year! )))) And it really doesn't matter what is written in the profile? with whom and what about to communicate? Or are you making predictions about what you can talk to a person by her photo? Or is the topic and quality of the conversation not important?
RE: Personal forums and needs
mmmmmmm you looks like my English teacher!!!
maybe its you?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3YHHLJBkiI
maybe its you?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3YHHLJBkiI
RE: Merry Christmas
Thank you! )) And Marry Christmas to you too! ))) Wish you a wonderful members and fabulous pleasure from communicating on the site))) And wish all the best to everybody )))
Merry Christmas to all!
Who cares about dominance?
I thought about this topic ... I ran into it here and remembered the experience of my acquaintances ... and came to the conclusion that not all these things related to BDSM are a deviation, but rather in our modern society there is often a deviation in the form well-known feminism and next to it, which it seems to me, is the reason for the emergence of the direction of dominance. Indeed, even if we consider the case when a man strives to be in the role of a slave, it is obvious that the women in his life have already suppressed him so much that he has already accepted this fate and is trying to find at least some pleasure in it))) and if a man seeks to dominate - after all, this is the most natural distribution of roles .... After all. usually you hear from the dominant - I take care of my woman and all this for her happiness. But modern independent and controlling women are forcing men to restore justice at least in this form. Oh .... such a deep and capacious topic! ... I invite you to continue discussing it in my room - is it interesting? )))
RE: Who cares about dominance?
What psychological relief do many alpha males in socially dominant positions experience in identifying with the submissive role. Fantasizing themselves as “liberated” from all the responsibilities that go with functioning in dominant professional roles offers them a respite from always having to be in control. And, of course, because they get to choose the fantasy material that most turns them on, they haven’t really given up control in such a way that might produce anxiety. So, despite appearing to lose control in these fantasies apparently they "control" all the aspects of the relationship. It is an interesting topic. BTW, I am not a sub but I see so many in the Community Chat room I was curious and did some reading. It seems counter intuitive for many men who are "alpha men" in life to gravitate to sub fantasies. Go figure...we humans make sexual reproduction so damn complicated! Now...why do some men love feet? :)
RE: Who cares about dominance?
Wow! I didn't even expect to receive such an answer! Thank you! I invite you to my room - we will discuss the legs, including))) Now not only your words are interesting for me, but their author also)))))))))))
RE: Who cares about dominance?
i do not know if i have as articulate a response but i have always felt submissive..it may be that some experiences made me this way but glad there are safe avenues to explore
RE: Who cares about dominance?
Thank you! Your answer is very important, no matter how you formulate it! So you are doing research in the process? Exploring yourself and your feelings? or? .... and in social life do you consider yourself an "alpha male" or not? Such a rare opportunity to discuss with a person involved in this topic, but at the same time, it seems like from the outside ...
RE: Who cares about dominance?
i think there may be some confusion about being submissive in a relationship as opposed to being a doormat in daily life which i am not
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Yes .... on the one hand, only a strong person can obey, since this obedience must be realized in principle ... otherwise it turns out not submission, but simply violence ... on the other hand, submission of a man to a woman is very an interesting question ... after all, in theory, submission as such is not very characteristic of a man. In general, it's difficult ... it's also difficult to feel it from the inside, since I'm not a man))))
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Yes I agree. It is impossible to truly experience what others experience. A childhood fantasy of mine was to swap perception with other people to see "what they see." What do they feel? It is impossible to know. Even something as simple as colors vision is different for all of us.
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well, to some extent, it is still possible ... but only in interaction with another person. If you eliminate as much as possible everything personal in interaction, all assessments and conclusions - but simply observe and see, listen and hear - in this case, you can see what others see. So, to some extent, your childhood dream is absolutely real. For the most part, here, of course, we train the skills of forming various illusions, but if you set a goal, you can train a completely opposite skill - dispelling any illusions ...
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i can trace certain experiences that trigger an attraction to humiliation.. the brain listens to what we think about and creates neurons and pathways in relation to same..is this a self created addiction?
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I share the belief that absolutely everything in our life is created by ourselves. Or at least it is a manifestation of our personal will and our own choice. Don't you think so?
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There is a philosophy that has been around for a long time that we create our own reality. And now some physicists suggest we might actually be living in a hologram. So perhaps you are correct, "we are what we think." On the other hand I often believe we do not have free will and there is strong evidence to support this theory. So....we were discussing doms and subs. The conversation has changed. My apologies for hijacking your thread. :)
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https://www.nature.com/news/simulations-back-up-theory-that-universe-is-a-hologram-1.14328
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I am very grateful to you for your contribution to this discussion and would be very grateful if you could share with me your arguments against the existence of free will. I'm really curious .... As for the topic of the thread - it hasn't changed .... do you really think that so many people spend so much time and money here solely because of unwarranted behavioral preferences? )))
P.S.: I have not read the article yet, but now I will take it)))
P.S.: I have not read the article yet, but now I will take it)))
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i think it is a mixtures..we do not creat all of our own experiences
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my experience confirms my beliefs, but you have your own experience. Want to create a shared one? ))))
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Is hard to discuss such a large topic as free will here. And there are many ways to make an argument to prove there is no free will. Let me start with two arguments.
a. Imagine a universe in which everything that happens is completely caused by whatever happened before it. So what happened in the beginning of the universe caused what happened next and so on, right up to the present. If I decided to have a meat pie at lunch one day, this decision, like all others, was caused by what happened before it.
b. Or consider what started this discussion. The topic of sexual submissive men. Did these people chose this desire? No. it is in them. Just like I am a heterosexual male and I am attracted to women. I did not make this choice of attraction. It is just in me.
a. Imagine a universe in which everything that happens is completely caused by whatever happened before it. So what happened in the beginning of the universe caused what happened next and so on, right up to the present. If I decided to have a meat pie at lunch one day, this decision, like all others, was caused by what happened before it.
b. Or consider what started this discussion. The topic of sexual submissive men. Did these people chose this desire? No. it is in them. Just like I am a heterosexual male and I am attracted to women. I did not make this choice of attraction. It is just in me.
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Thank you for your detailed answer! Yes, you are right - it is even strange to have such philosophical conversations here, but we do)))) By the way, the topic of the conversation is not men who obey, but dominance in principle. In my root message, there was even more about dominant men, not submissive ... It is really difficult to debate, because if I now begin to convince you that your theses are not correct, this will only cause resistance from your side and we will turn into ping-pong players))) Rather, I will answer you that I understand what you mean))) but at the same time these are rather your beliefs (or perhaps not yours) and not arguments as such .... Probably, in response, I can also give only some of my beliefs (perhaps not mine). This can already be considered an argument in favor of free will - everyone lives based on their beliefs)))) and if we return to your arguments, then in the beginning of the Universe there was a Source ... which provided us with this free will ... You have probably heard about experiments physicists - a quantum behaves like a particle or like a wave, depending on the point of view of the observer - this is a scientific fact .... Do you think that submissive men in the maternity hospital have written on a name tag - submissive? It seems to me that we are still confusing free will with awareness. Because, yes, you do not choose your meat pie by chance. but in connection with your previous free decision ....
But actually .... why do you allow me to tire everyone here with these reflections))))) Don't you know how to make a woman shut up? You are attractive, I am damn attractive - why waste time? ))))))))))
But actually .... why do you allow me to tire everyone here with these reflections))))) Don't you know how to make a woman shut up? You are attractive, I am damn attractive - why waste time? ))))))))))
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Great response and it was fun to read it. I am impressed. You are clearly extremely intelligent and have a sense of humor. Just one simple question. Do you believe in God?
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Thank you for your kind words)))) I am very lucky with my interlocutors! I really enjoy this dicussion! Thanks to all the participants for this))) Of course, I believe in God! Absolutely everyone believes! It's just that everyone's faith is different and someone does not even know yet that they believe)))) I also have a not very traditional faith, but nevertheless ...
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The justice system for crime and punishment as well as the moral edicts of religion need the concept of free will to be a coherent system don't you think? As you can see....I am trying to make my messages here a bit briefer. I tend to be a bit excessively wordy. :)
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Are you giving me an example of brevity? Or are you trying to curtail my pleasure of reading you just because of capriciousness? )))
I think that neither the justice system, nor the moral decrees of religions are incompatible with free will, since they are institutions of control and subordination, and free will is more likely to develop ... I think that the system of justice and religions are necessary for those who still did not come to awareness, and therefore cannot fully use free will. And those who have already come to free will do not need the limitations of justice and religion, they already have much more stringent limitations of their own ...
I think that neither the justice system, nor the moral decrees of religions are incompatible with free will, since they are institutions of control and subordination, and free will is more likely to develop ... I think that the system of justice and religions are necessary for those who still did not come to awareness, and therefore cannot fully use free will. And those who have already come to free will do not need the limitations of justice and religion, they already have much more stringent limitations of their own ...
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well lets maintain some fun.. the ladies provide an escape when one is needed.. am too old for therapy..lol.. i believe i have limited free will but choose to surender it.. safe sane and consentual.. i think therefore i am
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if at your "too old" age you still prefer to give up free will, then it seems to me that no one shows it more than you in this refusal))) I think, like a mother cat which allows her kittens to bite her ears, you generously allow us to dominate ))))))))))))))))
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I have just registered an new account today, but as stupid as I am I didnt type my full name into the registration form. So I guess that is why my credit card company declines the registration payment (which is not really a payment).
For that reason I am not registered/apporoved.
What should I do, because changing the name is not available in account settings.
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For that reason I am not registered/apporoved.
What should I do, because changing the name is not available in account settings.
Kind regards
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