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Feeling cynical today and bored
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1. Name (he is lying) 1. nice name
2. Country (he is probably lying) 2. nice country
3. Age (he is lying) 3. nice age
4. Cock 4. that is nice and big
5. Single (he is probably lying) 5. ahh nice
6. Married 6. errr ,nice
7. Divorced (maybe lying) 7. sorry, nice
8. you are in wrong category for me 8. what category do you like
9 . I see you changed category 9 just to please YOU
10. you believe everything I said? 10. you believe everything I said?
11. it was fun, I will see you again (I do not 11. it was fun, come back (but do not be so boring next time)
really mean that
You know I love you all. (well most of you)
Hopefully I will not get bored again
1. Name (he is lying) 1. nice name
2. Country (he is probably lying) 2. nice country
3. Age (he is lying) 3. nice age
4. Cock 4. that is nice and big
5. Single (he is probably lying) 5. ahh nice
6. Married 6. errr ,nice
7. Divorced (maybe lying) 7. sorry, nice
8. you are in wrong category for me 8. what category do you like
9 . I see you changed category 9 just to please YOU
10. you believe everything I said? 10. you believe everything I said?
11. it was fun, I will see you again (I do not 11. it was fun, come back (but do not be so boring next time)
really mean that
You know I love you all. (well most of you)
Hopefully I will not get bored again
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
If this is your experience, what do you think, why do you choose such hosts of the same type? If this is your creativity, what do you think, why do you have such fantasies? ))))
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
First, let me say that, in no way did I mean disrespect to Hosts or Guests. Each interaction I have on CC is enjoyable, whether just chatting or being engaged in another activity. Of course, each interaction with a different host is a unique experience. Due to my nature, I do not often visit a Host, that I have some sort of connection with, more than a few times . With some hosts there is no connection, that is human nature, and I do not say that in a negative way. The reality of the site, and others like it, is that the Guests are here for pleasure, whatever that is to them, and the Hosts to make some income. If a bond is made during the interactions, that is a bonus. I realize that there are many men on here who lack good communication skills and have disrespected hosts. Likewise, on the other side, there are Hosts who have taken advantage of men over and above the expected normalcy, lying about what the interaction will be and breaking the "agreement" of what was negotiated. I think that all of us need to understand our expectations and limitations and realize why we are here. We are all part of this wondrous world.
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
That's because you have no Teddy in your life ! BUt seriously , maybe you're too much with similar things and your fantasy is telling you THO GIRLS NOT BORING , JUST YOU NEED SOMETHING FRESH IN YOUR MIND ! BUT ofc , only you know the reason !.
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
I do not think my Teddy is as big as your Teddy, and I have not sat on his face. You are correct. I do like to keep my life "fresh". Looking at my account over the last three years on CC, I have made over 2000 video visits to Hosts. Not many of them have been repeat visits. Remember, "variety is the spice of life".
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
Hahahahahaha, that will teach me to check which name I am posting under. No delete button when you post.
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
Loved it, Edge! More truth than irony in that, I think. Thanks for being "bored"!
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I have a question of a practical or linguistic nature ... Isn`t the word "nice" a part of the English-speaking culture of communication? In the same way as everyone asks at the beginning of a conversation "how are you?" or says "nice to meet you". These phrases, after all, are not considered hackneyed cliches - this is the norm of etiquette... And another question for the members - how would you like us to react to your answers, if such dialogues cause so much skepticism? Well, the third, very rhetorical question - why lie so much? )))))
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
I believe that most of us, Guests and Hosts, understand the communication that we initially have are the pleasantries necessary to gauge the forthcoming interaction. I have certain "etiquette" words that I use. Realistically, most interactions contain lies due to the nature of the site. Very few people on CC, Hosts or Guests want their real lives exposed to strangers. Of course, with men, unless single, are already secretive about being on this site. In the three years that I have been here I have met a variety of Hosts. Most have been pleasurable experiences, for me at least. I will continue to visit CC and enjoy all the beautiful, intelligent, and wonderful women here.
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
Thank you for answer! I try to understend: is lie like one more kind of fetish here or is it more still about secrets? Fetish is a separate story ... And if secrets - it's obvious that it is impossible to figure out a person thousands of kilometers away from you for some particulars from his life ... so it turns out that a person does not recognize his right to be as he is? Maybe you and others can help me understand this issue? Thank you!
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
A lie, is defined as an intention to deceive. If someone has a fetish, they have an unusually strong liking or need for a particular object or activity, as a way of getting sexual pleasure. So, a lie, could be a fetish if the person who is lying to you is getting sexual pleasure from the lie itself. My guess would be that the majority of lies told on CC are meant to deceive and are not a fetish. Everyone would have a different reason for doing this. When I am assessing whether I would like to start a conversation with a host, I first enter into initial conversation to determine whether I want to continue and move on to viewing her profile. I then read the narrative and look at her photos. I looked at your profile and from your photos assessed that you are a beautiful, sensual, and alluring woman. Of course, that was based on the photos that you chose to present to seduce us men into delving further, that is understandable. Now, in your narrative you state ..The real you, if you do not pretend to be someone else, we will get along already... My question to you is, how do you determine whether the man is The Real You, or is pretending (lying)?
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
I feel it with my spinal cord)))) Probably The Real You can lie here too. If he is used to pretending in real life, then what he says here without pretending may turn out to be a lie in relation to his "reality". Although, I think that this is more a play on words than really possible. The Real You are more about "to be or to seem". I think you also feel the difference between assertive behavior and arrogance or even aggressiveness. It's about the same with The Real You and The Unreal. Honestly, I don't care whether a man answers questions about the country, age, job, whether it's true or false ... all this is interesting to me only as a context in which we interact, and it is virtual anyway. Although, I just asked myself a question: do most men also lie about their wives' illnesses? The Real You for me is when a person opens up, he may not disclose all the information or not report any facts at all, but at the same time, he does not play ... With The Real You there is a feeling that I can lean on him, but with The Unreal - I'm falling into emptiness. A certain connection arises with The Real You, which allows any game to be made real and forms real involvement. With The Unreal You, some formal, automatic actions take place. I hope I answered your question ...
By the way, a special thank you for such a deep learning of my profile))))
By the way, a special thank you for such a deep learning of my profile))))
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I always enjoy reading your articulate, intelligent and thought provoking writings Sofia. Although we can be pleasant, and should be, to each other on CC the bottom line is that we engage in business transactions here. It is very rare that a Guest can build a relationship with a Host outside of that business transaction. Guests are paying for the time of a Host. Now, I would have no problem engaging in a relationship for free on CC, but that is not a realistic expectation and personally I am not looking for an intimate relationship here. So, we take it as it comes and have as much fun as we can (as long as the price is reasonable).
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
As I managed to notice here the words "real feelings", "real relationships", "being real" are a little scary for men ... Perhaps with the combination of "real relationships" there is confusion associated with "translation difficulties" - perhaps in English relationships mean exactly the relationship between a man and a woman or some kind of kinship ... but it seems to me that this is still a broader concept ... Real feelings do not imply an obligatory continuation in real life, as well as real relationships - the subsequent procession under the march of Mendelssohn. In my understanding, this only means that now with this person I really experience these feelings and do not hide or distort them in my manifestations. This does not mean that someone owes something to other or that tomorrow I will have to experience exactly the same feelings ...
and the second point: "what a real relationship can be if I pay." Well, you admit cases when a man establishes a relationship with his doctor ... whose services he also pays for ... why can't there be a relationship in this case then? It smacks of self-esteem questions here, it seems to me))) it turns out that the guest does not believe that the host actually has sympathy for him or cannot recognize where the true sympathy is, and where is simply politeness and a desire to please in order to extend the video chat ... After all, you buy only our time ...... our attitude you still have to deserve, no matter how much you have already paid ... And now the most interesting thing ... what is a real relationship? This is unselfishness on both sides (conditionally and simply speaking), isn't it? But it turns out that men who say "what kind of relationship can be if I pay" are not ready for a disinterested relationship, are not ready to just love a woman because she is, because he loves, but can only for reciprocity, it turns out a women must also pay for men`s attitude just different currencies .... They say that when it seems to us that someone treats us somehow, this is our projection of our own attitude to this person .... It seems to me that the more we learn to gift rather than buying, the more fun we will have not only in our interactions here on the site, but also in real life ...
and the second point: "what a real relationship can be if I pay." Well, you admit cases when a man establishes a relationship with his doctor ... whose services he also pays for ... why can't there be a relationship in this case then? It smacks of self-esteem questions here, it seems to me))) it turns out that the guest does not believe that the host actually has sympathy for him or cannot recognize where the true sympathy is, and where is simply politeness and a desire to please in order to extend the video chat ... After all, you buy only our time ...... our attitude you still have to deserve, no matter how much you have already paid ... And now the most interesting thing ... what is a real relationship? This is unselfishness on both sides (conditionally and simply speaking), isn't it? But it turns out that men who say "what kind of relationship can be if I pay" are not ready for a disinterested relationship, are not ready to just love a woman because she is, because he loves, but can only for reciprocity, it turns out a women must also pay for men`s attitude just different currencies .... They say that when it seems to us that someone treats us somehow, this is our projection of our own attitude to this person .... It seems to me that the more we learn to gift rather than buying, the more fun we will have not only in our interactions here on the site, but also in real life ...
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
While I always respect your opinions Sofia, let me ask you the question ...why are you on CC? If your answer is to meet and communicate with new and diverse people and have a relationship (whatever that is) why do you charge $ per minute for that? When I ask that question of Hosts, very few will say $$ as the first thing on their list. That, of course circles back to our discussion regarding honesty and lying. Once again, bottom line is that Hosts present themselves on CC, and similar sites, to make $$$, otherwise they would use free friendship/dating sites to meet new and diverse peoples. Call it for what it is, do not delude yourself into thinking that it is other than a business arrangement.
I have absolutely no problem paying for the time of a Host.
I have absolutely no problem paying for the time of a Host.
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
ohhhh my dear EDGE...R!!!!
COme life in ukraine - u will dont need ask why she or any here ,, i think u will here to WITH us(hosts)
else (about me) i realy sometime ask myself to ''why i here''?
sometime i have many answers but sometime cant find anyone with real sense,
COme life in ukraine - u will dont need ask why she or any here ,, i think u will here to WITH us(hosts)
else (about me) i realy sometime ask myself to ''why i here''?
sometime i have many answers but sometime cant find anyone with real sense,
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
Of course, you can ask me any questions. Although, I have already answered this question many times both on the forum and in chats and in letters .... I make money here. I would like to add "like everyone else", but I will not tell for others. Moreover, when I signed up for CC, money was not the first item on the list, it was the only item. Later, when I started communicating here on a regular basis, I saw other advantages in this work. But you are absolutely right, if I was looking for a relationship, I would look for them at other resources. Do you know at least one host in non-adult categories that does not charge per minute? I once wanted to try, for the sake of experiment, put 0 per minute - the system did not allow me to do this, the minimum allowable price is $ 0.9 per minute. But in fact, I do not understand the subject or the reasons for our dispute now (if it can be called a dispute) - I am not forcing you to build a relationship here. I am not denying that hosts are interested in income. I'm just saying that nothing prevents me from sincerely treats my guests while I am earning. And men should not convince themselves that where there is money, there can be no sincere relationship. You probably have a business or some kind of business relationship in real life - there
money is the primary goal too but at the same time you have sympathy and respect for some of the partners but not for other, with some of the business partners, you can become friends, and some of your friends regularly invite you to business breakfasts and lunches in order to sell you something .... This world is always about money ... it is material - this cannot be denied. But when you yourself are capable of sincerity and honesty, regardless of whether there is a money interest for you or not, then it is easier for you to believe in sincerity towards yourself ...
money is the primary goal too but at the same time you have sympathy and respect for some of the partners but not for other, with some of the business partners, you can become friends, and some of your friends regularly invite you to business breakfasts and lunches in order to sell you something .... This world is always about money ... it is material - this cannot be denied. But when you yourself are capable of sincerity and honesty, regardless of whether there is a money interest for you or not, then it is easier for you to believe in sincerity towards yourself ...
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
I have noticed on occasions some hosts offer free video chat to introduce themselves and get to know the member better before offering some extras in the paid video.
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
Perhaps ... to be honest, I don't know how this can be done on this site. There is a function "Free Teaser VideoChat" here ... But as far as I know, there is no way to set the price to 0. And this is good in my opinion))))
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
I think, too, what made your original post all the more entertaining to me, is the Predictabiility of the responses. Whether they are truthful or not, whether or not they express the responder's true feelings, they follow a pattern here.
It's like meeting someone on the street: "Hi, how are you?" -- while never even slowing down to actually hear the response. And the response, "Fine, thank you," -- while all the while the responder is dying inside and really wants to say, "Oh my life is hell! If only someone would stop to listen." But no one really does want to stop to listen. We want only our predictable responses.
It's like meeting someone on the street: "Hi, how are you?" -- while never even slowing down to actually hear the response. And the response, "Fine, thank you," -- while all the while the responder is dying inside and really wants to say, "Oh my life is hell! If only someone would stop to listen." But no one really does want to stop to listen. We want only our predictable responses.
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
Sorry, it's time for me to dwell on this topic, especially since your comment was not addressed to me, Phoenix, but I promise that after this answer I will definitely stop))
When I started communicating on this site, I noticed that many men, entering the chat, immediately wrote their name, age, country. And I always thought that this was a manifestation of courtesy on their part - after all, the hosts do not see the guest profiles. Now I'm thinking: maybe it's just a desire to predict the upcoming questionnaire questions, to reduce the time and the number of "nice" received?)))
And about our gravity towards predictable answers ... I think this is everyone's choice ... Formal greeting rituals help create a sense of benevolence, which is only the context, not the essence of what is happening. And what is happening to us is the responsibility of each of us. Imagine what chaos would reign in life if we stopped on the street, on the way to work, to the store or to the hospital / pharmacy and listened to about the hell of everyone who would like to share them ... But on the other hand, now our life is not much better from the fact that there is a huge number of people in it, whose hell asks to moove outward ... there is nothing good from this either for these people themselves or their environment, but until a person takes responsibility, until he decides for himself that I feel bad, but I want me to be good and ready to do something for this, until he goes to a psychologist and figure out what is really happening to him and why - no one can change the current state of affairs ... or until a person takes the bother to deal with their circumstances or organize their personal budget ... Here sometimes men go into a category "Make new friends" and ask, what am I doing in video chat? I communicate, I answer ... To which the man says: I do not want to communicate while I am paying. So why does he enter the category where there is a fee for communication then? What is he counting on? That someone will take responsibility for meeting his needs, change all the existing rules in order for him to feel good? It seems to me that in most situations we are counting on this ... And naturally we don't get it ... And life as a result becomes such pain that I'd rather sink into the illusion of predictable questions and answers ...
Well, I take a vow of silence, at least in this thread)))
When I started communicating on this site, I noticed that many men, entering the chat, immediately wrote their name, age, country. And I always thought that this was a manifestation of courtesy on their part - after all, the hosts do not see the guest profiles. Now I'm thinking: maybe it's just a desire to predict the upcoming questionnaire questions, to reduce the time and the number of "nice" received?)))
And about our gravity towards predictable answers ... I think this is everyone's choice ... Formal greeting rituals help create a sense of benevolence, which is only the context, not the essence of what is happening. And what is happening to us is the responsibility of each of us. Imagine what chaos would reign in life if we stopped on the street, on the way to work, to the store or to the hospital / pharmacy and listened to about the hell of everyone who would like to share them ... But on the other hand, now our life is not much better from the fact that there is a huge number of people in it, whose hell asks to moove outward ... there is nothing good from this either for these people themselves or their environment, but until a person takes responsibility, until he decides for himself that I feel bad, but I want me to be good and ready to do something for this, until he goes to a psychologist and figure out what is really happening to him and why - no one can change the current state of affairs ... or until a person takes the bother to deal with their circumstances or organize their personal budget ... Here sometimes men go into a category "Make new friends" and ask, what am I doing in video chat? I communicate, I answer ... To which the man says: I do not want to communicate while I am paying. So why does he enter the category where there is a fee for communication then? What is he counting on? That someone will take responsibility for meeting his needs, change all the existing rules in order for him to feel good? It seems to me that in most situations we are counting on this ... And naturally we don't get it ... And life as a result becomes such pain that I'd rather sink into the illusion of predictable questions and answers ...
Well, I take a vow of silence, at least in this thread)))
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
Thank you Phoenix. As you can see by my replies, I was bored again this morning.
RE: Feeling cynical today and bored
I see you have been here long enough to have memorized the culture of this place and the camhosting experience. So have I and I recognize so much of what you wrote.
There is sometimes almost a ritualistic aspect to human interactions. Not just here but in all of life. It reminds me of two dogs meeting each other (without the sniffing part) where they check out each other and their intentions.
In "real life" we may shake hands, smile, pat each other on the shoulders. Or perhaps if we are from an Asian culture we gently bow. And of course eye contact and perhaps a gentle smile.
Anyway it can become easy to be a tad bit cynical. I tend to fall into that trap when I am in a certain mood.
If you can break out of the rituals we all use here I hope we all can find a real connection with each other.
There is sometimes almost a ritualistic aspect to human interactions. Not just here but in all of life. It reminds me of two dogs meeting each other (without the sniffing part) where they check out each other and their intentions.
In "real life" we may shake hands, smile, pat each other on the shoulders. Or perhaps if we are from an Asian culture we gently bow. And of course eye contact and perhaps a gentle smile.
Anyway it can become easy to be a tad bit cynical. I tend to fall into that trap when I am in a certain mood.
If you can break out of the rituals we all use here I hope we all can find a real connection with each other.
RE: Tall Giant Dominatrix
that was supposed to be humorous not disrespectful.. a domme in high heels towering over me would be hot..but any size lady is hot.. can be overpowered physically or emotionally
RE: Tall Giant Dominatrix
Ukristy4sub is the ultimate Tall Mistress. She has towered over me having me, has me leaking all over, and completely dominates me.
Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
Hello everyone! )))
This topic knocks to me from different sides ... I myself thought about it and discussed it with the hosts, and the members sometimes hinted about the "decency" of this work. But when one of the members proposed this topic for discussion on the forum, I realized that it is relevant not only for girls. This time I will be short)))) And so, ladies and gentlemen, what do you think about this, how do you feel about this issue?
This topic knocks to me from different sides ... I myself thought about it and discussed it with the hosts, and the members sometimes hinted about the "decency" of this work. But when one of the members proposed this topic for discussion on the forum, I realized that it is relevant not only for girls. This time I will be short)))) And so, ladies and gentlemen, what do you think about this, how do you feel about this issue?
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
I have not mentioned to anyone I am a member here but no one has asked me either. It is not common for friends to ask what website I go on nor do I ask friends what they do on the internet. If another man asks me what I do to meet girls I would share this site with him.
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
only those closest to me (except children) know about my work. but if someone from my acquaintances sees me here, I will not make excuses
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
If I were your acquaintance I would meet you here for sure. That would be incredibly hot !!!
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
Hello. Its very intresting topic, honestly
As for me, i do not hide nothing from my friends and family. Friends know all, family only some part
And even to new people in my life i will tell the truth. Nothing to hide to shame in this. If you are a webmodel - need to understand and accept it first, then others will do the same. If not- this is ood chance to see who is your real friends or no
As for me, i do not hide nothing from my friends and family. Friends know all, family only some part
And even to new people in my life i will tell the truth. Nothing to hide to shame in this. If you are a webmodel - need to understand and accept it first, then others will do the same. If not- this is ood chance to see who is your real friends or no
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
There is an old saying, "Everyone has secrets." A study in published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, indicates the average person is keeping 13 secrets right now. Five of them are secrets they've never told another living soul. These stats come from a paper which looked at more than 13,000 secrets over 10 different studies. Based on this you would have to say having secrets is normal. They identified 38 common categories of secrets that people keep about themselves, ranging from infidelity and illegal behavior to pregnancy and planned surprises for others. And those categories held up across study populations, which included participants drawn from the Amazonian tribes to random picnickers recruited from New York City’s Central Park. Common categories include cheating on tests, stealing, drug & alcohol use, eating,and abortion. And of course pertinent to this place sexual matters such as having an affair to fetishes are just a few more of the types of secrets we keep. There is evidence that "sharing" a secret with a trusted friend may lighten the burden and also creates bonding between people. Full disclosure, my participation as a member here is a secret.
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
Thank you pete, I hope you feel better now.
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
We now have a bond....tenuous though it may be. :) Live long and prosper seemsreal.
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
My wife knows that I chat with women online with various women from Ukraine and other countries and does not care (it's complicated).
Nobody else knows and it's nobody's business.
Nobody else knows and it's nobody's business.
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
Hi again, dear ones .... I want to tell "my friends", although I am not familiar with some of you at all, but you say very close things to which I already want to react. At first I wanted to wait for more answers, but I'm afraid that later I might miss something from what is said already. Thanks to everyone who shared their opinions! Strange or not, but I share each of them)) But I'll start with an entertaining study. Thanks Pete! I probably would never have known about it)) Our science loves so much to describe and classify everything ... and then what? There are a huge number of very different secrets, people have many secrets, so - consider this the norm! and share with your close friends. Society is comfortable when its members have secrets. People with secrets are always more manageable ... Therefore, this is a very useful trend for society - "secrets are the norm, and if this makes you feel bad(and it should... because this is norm but some kind of sick) share with your friends". I do not consider secrets to be the norm... The presence of a secret is always suppressive, always accompanied by a feeling of fear and anxiety, and this greatly contributes to controllability, but very much interferes with feeling happy. Moreover, this feeling of depression most often arises among those with whom they shared a secret, and also makes people dependent on each other ... In a community like CC, I don’t think that there is anything terrible to share secrets, but in real life , what I said above may take place. The second question is what is considered a secret? In the study, everything was swept together - even a surprise is called a secret! We often call a surprise “little secrets” at the philistine level, but from the point of view of psychology, they are completely different things. If secrets evoke feelings of overwhelm, surprises are exciting. I absolutely agree with Smarty and Babedoll and Paul - these are not so much secrets as adequate prudence .... as they say: "Who is a bore? A person who, when asked how is he, actually begins to tell how he is doing")))) Why reveal all your under-the-hood, to the first person you meet, or even to your acquaintances ... but all this is relevant with such an attitude to the issue, as described by AmIHereForYou - this is the position of a free person who accepts and is responsible for his choices ... such a position, there is not even a need to do some shameful things and in general it is difficult to find some shameful things ... But even in our community we hide our eyes at the word fetish and ridicule certain varieties of it. For some reason, no one is so outraged if someone love salted cucumbers with honey or any other appetences in food are not considered fetishes, and things that increase the appetite in sex are called fetish by everyone and whisper about it ... I don't know, honestly speaking, have I added something new to this discussion, probably all this was already read between the lines in the previous comments. I just want to hope or wish Pete and Doug that what they do not tell anyone about their being on this site is not perceived by them as one of 38 types of "secrets", but rather as their own free will, since they have absolutely the same right not to tell anyone about your personal life and your passions, as well as to have this very personal life with their passions ...
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
Salted cucumbers with honey??? What? Is this a thing? Who knew? Hmmm...... Unlike many of the fetishes so often on this site I will give this one a try. It falls under the category of "you never know if you don't try." Some things alas I will never try. :) Be well Sofia. Thanks for the contributions.
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
Never say never ))) Thank you too, Pete )))
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
Sure! After all, you are not only Beauty, but also Shy, so you don't tell everyone everything)))) But seriously, thanks for another example, in my opinion, of an adequate attitude to this issue!
But maybe someone has a different attitude to this question? It would be great if you could share it with us too.
But maybe someone has a different attitude to this question? It would be great if you could share it with us too.
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
I shared it with one collegue 5 years ago or so, we are both single and around 50 and we did have both Romanian ladies under 30 as facebook friends. So, the math was easy. We talked about that we both loved this world, talked about the difference of the sites. One thing we did not do, exchange favorites. Never explicit said it, but it seems we both are not so good in sharing )))
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
An interesting experience ... Thank you for sharing with us)) well, probably, in real life, men also not directly discuss the details and nuances of their intimate life ...
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
knowledge is power.. being here is freedom to express things one might not otherwise do. even being a bit vulnerable to a girl here
RE: Do you tell friends and family you work here or visit CC as a member?
Yes, it's great that there is such a place!
RE: what is the way to man's...?
that is a falsehood. Many guys love a lady that can cook, but finding the one niche that a man lovesis the key to winning his heart. Whether it is the way she engages with him, or her smile, or how she likes to interact with him in the bedroom. There's many options
RE: what is the way to man's...?
And a man whom a woman fed deliciously may then agree to take an exam in geography instead of her))) But to feed deliciously is also the right food, and the right food, as the Greneker noted, is different for every man ... I think we feed men the right food here )))))) And I'm joining Ladymodel - I also love sweets)))))))
RE: what is the way to man's...?
once a man told me :''if a wife meets her husband from work in stockings (only in them), then even raw dumplings for him will be very tasty!''.
if a man eats in a restaurant - it's not cheating.
but it would be ideal if the husband encouraged his wife to bake for him in stockings every day!
if a man eats in a restaurant - it's not cheating.
but it would be ideal if the husband encouraged his wife to bake for him in stockings every day!
RE: what is the way to man's...?
You can feed me dumplings babe.In your house they would be raw because you never leave your bed. :-)
RE: what is the way to man's...?
anyway ....babe can feed only her husband and kids !
u are my.....?
u are my.....?
RE: what is the way to man's...?
To sit in the kitchen sometimes for soooo long only to eat what was made in 5-10 min ? Thanks but no thanks . Not my time of spending time .There is always a good place to go out and eat or to order !
Rules and Etiquette for Nudist Colonies.
1. No Lingerie, Underwear, or Suggestive Attire
2. You have to carry a towel
3. Being naked doesn't mean getting it on
4. Do not stare at people
5. Make sure you're actually at a nudist colony
6. If you get aroused cover-up
7. You aren't allowed to take photos.
8. Pool Etiquette: NO SWIMSUITS, shirts or any other cover are allowed in the POOLS or HOT TUBS
9. Pets: Pets are only permitted in specified pet rooms
10 Do not feed the alligators.
2. You have to carry a towel
3. Being naked doesn't mean getting it on
4. Do not stare at people
5. Make sure you're actually at a nudist colony
6. If you get aroused cover-up
7. You aren't allowed to take photos.
8. Pool Etiquette: NO SWIMSUITS, shirts or any other cover are allowed in the POOLS or HOT TUBS
9. Pets: Pets are only permitted in specified pet rooms
10 Do not feed the alligators.
RE: sup
Ofc . Always ! Only ! Stimulating, intellectual, articulate. Making chiken soup for husband ( naked ofc ) thats always stimulating, intellectual, articulate. :)
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
Natural is always better )
Something pleasureable in making them bounce that you just dont see with fakes!
Something pleasureable in making them bounce that you just dont see with fakes!
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
I'm glad the men are here
on the side of the natural beauty of the body.
on the side of the natural beauty of the body.
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
Natural breasts and lips are both better. I really don't understand the attraction of the big fat lips, especially the ones that look larger than their fingers, reminds me of the Mrs Potato Head lips lol. Natural slim lips are perfect )
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
I'm glad the men are here
on the side of the natural beauty of the body.
on the side of the natural beauty of the body.
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
an interesting topic ... at first glance it seemed rather superficial, but the comments above brought me somehow to a different depth. It seems like everyone agrees that natural is always better (and I also share this point of view). But what if, for example, a woman has lost her breasts for health reasons? Probably it would be better for her to make an artificial one? And I don't think that a man who really loves her will love her less after that, even though the feeling in his palms will be different. Most likely because what is deeper than the surface of the chest has already become so dear and close to him and it has not changed after the operation. Perhaps earlier, at the dawn of the era of plastic surgery, it was possible to find more admirers of various improvements among men, because it was not such a craze, such an unshakable trend as it is today. Today, it seems to me (maybe I'm wrong) such operations are resorted to without hesitation, simply because it is fashionable, because there will be more likes on Instagram. And a woman who realizes herself as a woman who accepts herself as she is, understands her value and her true advantages - it seems to me that she will not even look towards breast augmentation. And in fact, choosing natural breasts, men choose not so much breasts as a woman, next to whom they can feel like real men, whom they can make happy and be happy with her. This is if we talk about life and relationships ... And if we talk about the entertainment industry for adults, where everything is about "watching", of course girls will enlarge their breasts, because they will make a fortune on this, because even those men who say that they like natural, they will come to look at big breasts, even if they do not become regulars, but due to the amount, the wealth can be reached)))) But, having achieved this goal and made a fortune, the girl may find that life is ruined ... If I understand correctly after the implant there is no road to a natural breast ... The other day I read an article that resources for adults help to exploit women. But no one says that modern trends help women ruin their lives ... Thank you, LexusIS250!
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
Yes, I also agree with you))) how can you or why change something if you love everything that you have? More precisely, there will still be changes, but probably they will not be surgical, but rather from the series "I will give physical activity to my body, because I feel that it will be pleasant for him," "I will study something, because this it is very interesting to me". But I don't really agree with "they must" ...)))) Whatever a person does (from the point of view of others it may be good or bad), since a person has already made such a choice, it means that it is good for her. And plastic surgery, for those who have already done it, is also good. Because this is their path and for some reason it should be that way. You rightly noticed that when a girl realizes that bigger breasts did not make her happy, she will think about changing something else ... And even if some times more this "something else" will be another parts of body, for the umpteenth time, she may already think about the fact that she still needs to consider and understand something in herself. I believe that we do not come into this life to get the "right experience", we go to get the most diverse experience. And it’s not even clear if it’s great if our reflections make someone think before plastic surgery and refuse it? Perhaps this particular girl needed it right now, because this way she will understand something faster ... Perhaps this girl's example should serve many other girls who, just by looking at her, will draw their own conclusions. Perhaps she will have to win attention and inspire millions of people, like Michael Jackson once did. There are many options .... And unlike the opinion of the men present (I am expressing special respect and gratitude to the men which left comments here), there are still husbands who recommend to their wives and sometimes in an insistent form to do such an operation. It is not a fact that after the operation this family will also be happy, but again - this is the path ... it is in order to follow it, and not to stand at the beginning and think about the most correct and best way to teleport to the end point))))
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
Yes, as the man said "if he loves her .....", as you said "if she loves herself ...." the more love there is in our world, the more nice and beautiful breasts and lips, and girls and men ))))))) LOVE gentlemen! And please be more active - as someone is counting in the community chat - it`s the 8th day of the period! Girls are happy to accept love, gifts and video chats !!!! LOL
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
to be honest for me its not an issue, if you like someone you like their boobs whatever shape or size they are ;)
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
i love small. but then i love skinny girls, so most skinny girls are naturally small chested
RE: Small natural vs Big fake
Personally hate fake boobs and fake lips. Lips so are so big they have no shape look weird, Some fake boobs that are not too big are ok but generally small boobs are sexy too so leave them alone.
natural long nails
hi, I'm looking for girls willing to use their witchcraft and long natural nails on me. any suggestions?
RE: natural long nails
I have the best nails around ;)
natural nails are not practical at all ! ( if you want lenght ofc) If a natural long nail breaks-it's game over for at least 6 months
natural nails are not practical at all ! ( if you want lenght ofc) If a natural long nail breaks-it's game over for at least 6 months
RE: natural long nails
If a natural long nail breaks-it's game over for at least 6 months
Reply that's why rare gems of time are so precious. like vintage cars, old cameras well looked after.
Reply that's why rare gems of time are so precious. like vintage cars, old cameras well looked after.
RE: natural long nails
Why be interested in nails if you don't call .... how will you see your feet if you don't video chat ?!
RE: natural long nails
it has to be irresistible like magic. your pics would have to draw me into your woods. they didn't. we live in visual culture...
RE: natural long nails
there are no nails on my photos .... to see the nails you need to call ..
RE: natural long nails
there are, and they don't arouse my curiosity. the fact that you want to sell something doesn't make me automatically addicted to buying it. you may alway send me a picture to proove that I'm wrong.
RE: Poppers
In the USA Poppers is a common slang term for a range of chemical psychoactive drugs called alkyl nitrites, and in particular, the inhalant drug amyl nitrite.They have pretty bad side effects. If you are thinking of using them please do research before you take any.
RE: Poppers
Rush..El Toro.. but really depends on the country you are in..Never heard a model ask for these before, only slaves use them :)))
RE: Poppers
bee cearful with some poppers, my slave burned his skeen over nose, after use them on pantys and wear on face.
RE: Poppers
What a crazy ride,never seen my subies do that,just sniffing thru nose.Some naughty boys are playing to much with fire lool
Beware of uchiway4
Beware of uchiway4. She'll promise to do something erotic for you then she'll change her mind and won't do anything. She told me I could see her soles as long as she could see my face. So I bought a new camera and went to her and she wouldn't show them to me. She just wanted to talk.
RE: Beware of uchiway4
It is a tricky thing. Of course the woman can decide what she wants to do in all cases. However, if it was something that was mutually agreed to then she should carry out her end of the bargain.
RE: Beware of uchiway4
Damn .........i laughed and laughed and.........agen damn laughed . Maybe you hurt her feelings last time and she revenges you hahaha. So if you're a kind boy I'll show you my soles as long as your need ( or even rub cream in front of you ) .
RE: Beware of uchiway4
Seems you looking for brainf*cking, not soles. 1000 girls here who ready to show their soles without any conditions. But you go to odd person with 1 low quality picture in profile, who is demanding without any reasons - and wait for good service?? Really?
RE: Beware of uchiway4
definitely got what he deserved :)) cummysoles, choose better next time :D
RE: Beware of uchiway4
what i find funny is that a similar thread was open a week or 2 ago and a guy complained that he didn't get what they agreed upon and this guy goes out of his way to get her to do smth and is surprised when she doens't :)) that's setting yourself for disaster and acting surprise :)) like doing the same thing multiple times and expecting different results :))
Looking
I am looking for a host to control my electronic masturbation machine. She will do this by connecting through her phone or computer. She will be able to control the speed and length of strokes of the device. If you are interested, send me a CC mail.
RE: keep in mind
Good point! Thank you. If hosts are interested they can let me know in the forum here.
RE: Looking
Hey
Just a question..why can't you find a girl you like and ask her to download the app?)
Just a question..why can't you find a girl you like and ask her to download the app?)
RE: Looking
It is not easy getting a girl to do that for a variety of reasons. A lot of girls seem to have a problem grasping the concept. I figure that if a girl is interested enough she will research how it works.
RE: Looking
I thought those toys were popular for the last 2-3 years no ? And lots video how to control it and use it . I prefer an electro cock ring hehehehe , that's so exciting when you can hit his cock anytime .
RE: R�E�:� �L�o�o�k�i�n�g�
That would be amazing, I have thought about this in the past. Gets me excited thinking about it, but would it not get abused too much?! Lol.
Manners
Lately i have come to notice, that in some category the women always show the middle finger at me. What did i do?
RE: Manners
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha at least that gave me a laugh.
RE: Manners
It is off the subject a bit, but, I must say that I have never seen so many comments on a profile page as yours. Very intirguing.
RE: Manners
Nobody ever sends me dick picks. Not here, not on instagram, not even on tinder! Where have i gone wrong?
BTW this post isnt an invitation to do so, so please, dont send me any, i wasnt complaining haha
BTW this post isnt an invitation to do so, so please, dont send me any, i wasnt complaining haha
RE: Manners
Expect a flood of dick pics since now:))) Many may see this as an offer)))
By the way, if they send gifts along with their dicks photos, then I don't mind)))
By the way, if they send gifts along with their dicks photos, then I don't mind)))
RE: Manners
I'm shy to ask, what kind of fetish do you request them to practice with you? LOL
I'm just kidding, don't be offended :P
I'm just kidding, don't be offended :P
RE: Manners
None at all. I just browsed. And i saw everyone pointing a middle finger at me. For no reason.
RE: Manners
Women showing the middle finger? That's a good sign. It means they do not respect you. You're in for a hot humilation experience.
RE: Manners
Hmmm user name little. reference to finger = Littlefinger
Game of Thrones reference maybe ? Maybe they recognise you as Littlefinger lol
Game of Thrones reference maybe ? Maybe they recognise you as Littlefinger lol
Flashing green screen?
Do any of you have a problem with the chat host's screen flashing green?
I have this problem very often, it's worse with some chat hosts' screen than with others.
Any idea what causes it and how it can be fixed?
I have this problem very often, it's worse with some chat hosts' screen than with others.
Any idea what causes it and how it can be fixed?
RE: Question for viewers!
My friends smile in her profile is what attracted me to her. And 7 years later were still talking
RE: Question for viewers!
Black hair, black top, black panties, and legs with black stockings on. The main photo must be sideways.
RE: Question for viewers!
I agree with Justin85. A great smile will almost always intrigue me.
RE: Question for viewers!
A smile gets my vote too. Also photo not naked but a suggestion of something maybe an uncovered shoulder is nice. And genuine photo not one from a photoshop or professional shoot. All three of these in one and now your talking.
Favorite place to cum
Where is your favorite body part to cum on? I love cumming all over a girls tits and feet . And a question for the ladies here. What is your favorite body part for a guy to cum on?
RE: Favorite place to cum
I'm sure , everyone has different parts of the body where they like to see man sperm . Mine it's all over my face , in fact i'm call it " Wild kitty look " hehehhehe ) . But once , long ago i'm found excited for myself , when man cummed in my heels and i'm wearing them to the work .
RE: Favorite place to cum
I love cumming in a woman's mouth and also on her tits, ass, in her pussy and on her soles
goddess agent provocaters property
god i am so much in love with her and wil newer bee bad again only prove myself and bee better and better she is my life and thanks goddess that you own me and didnt kick me out was werry bad and drunk yesterday and talked bad about goddess agent and god i looked what i was writing when i opened this morning and started to cry since i was so afraid she should ban me and dont talk to me again i was afraid she left me alone but she is so werry good and powerfull and she told me that she wil stil keep me i love her so much and are total adicted and weak when she call for me to use me thanks goddess that i am your litle linda animal. i am goddesess smal sisy linda for ever so totaly adicted and weak in front of her and love her more than my life and love when she teas me and use and humiliat me like her litle sisy belinda.goddess are the most beatifull women on this planet and i am her property she is so sexy and now how to push all the right buttom to totaly take ower total control from men like me and she now werry wel her power and she now sometimes i sit allday at floor with butplug waiting god i could go on and on but my spermbank get so painfull since its not often i am allowed to empty it and god i love her with all my heart and mind and are happy whn she use me hard like her litle sisy belinda. thank you goddess that you keep me and let me have all my dreams about you since ofcourse i wil newer bee worty to sit on same level its to high up there thank you goddess i love you more and more and are total adicted . your litle sisy belinda for everi am goddesess smal sisy linda for ever so totaly adicted and weak in front of her and love her more than my life and love when she teas me and use and humiliat me like her litle sisy belinda.goddess are the most beatifull women on this planet and i am her property she is so sexy and now how to push all the right buttom to totaly take ower total control from men like me and she now werry wel her power and she now sometimes i sit allday at floor with butplug waiting god i could go on and on but my spermbank get so painfull since its not often i am allowed to empty it and god i love her with all my heart and mind and are happy whn she use me hard like her litle sisy belinda. thank you goddess that you keep me and let me have all my dreams about you since ofcourse i wil newer bee worty to sit on same level its to high up there thank you goddess i love you more and more and are total adicted . your litle sisy belinda for ever
RE: goddess agent provocaters property
Yes Goddess Kseniya is so powerful
I understand your feelings very well, piggy2020
Love you, Agent! you are our Queen forever
I understand your feelings very well, piggy2020
Love you, Agent! you are our Queen forever
RE: goddess agent provocaters property
I take it that this is a rambling attempt to advertise for said Goddess. I appreciate that you are under the spell of this woman but jeez don't you have any friends in real life who will listen?
RE: goddess agent provocaters property
Sorry, dude, I don't have the time, energy, or desire to read all that. Try being a bit more concise and less windy.
RE: Who's got the sexiest soles on here?
you have to call every girl here and then we will find out :D
RE: Who's got the sexiest soles on here?
Each to their own, but for the life of me I can`t understand how guys are turned on by womens feet.
RE: Who's got the sexiest soles on here?
I don't understand it either and I have a major foot fetish. I would take a footjob over a blowjob or pussy any day! I love cumming all over a woman's soles after she strokes my dick with her feet.
RE: Who's got the sexiest soles on here?
I never liked women's feet, they always use them to run away from me.
RE: Naked Yoga
Try starting with clothed yoga, move to striptease yoga, a gift or two, and then maybe. At least that's how I understand it can work.
RE: Naked Yoga
In what role do you see yourself in this process? ))) For some time now I have a question - is there someone here who is engaged in Tantra? probably it's not really nude yoga, but the result should be something like fly yoga, maybe))))
RE: Naked Yoga
I can believe it! want to talk with you in more detail about this, if you don't mind))
RE: Naked Yoga
Oh man! I'm glad I re-read your post!
I thought it said "Naked Yoda" - suddenly my Star Wars fandom took a nose dive and crashed with that picture in mind. brrrrrrr shudder!
I thought it said "Naked Yoda" - suddenly my Star Wars fandom took a nose dive and crashed with that picture in mind. brrrrrrr shudder!
RE: Naked Yoga
Just make sure it isnt goat yoga, I dont think that would be allowed under the rules :)
Ode to my Love on CC
There have been a string of posts (you should see the Viewer's Forum) by long-suffering sycophantic members who worship their dominatrix, leather-wearing, whip-wielding gorgeous Wonder Women hosts and I just have to add my own post, in the form of poetry.
I may have posted this before, but my memory is not what it used to be. Please forgive my indulgence.
Ode to My Love on CC
My love is a hippopotamus
The absolute bestest bottomest
When she's wet, there's no telling
her backside from a watermelon.
When she's hot, likely as not,
My hippo's hotter than a hottentot
But when she's cold, it's plain to see,
her biggest ass is probably me.
SR
I may have posted this before, but my memory is not what it used to be. Please forgive my indulgence.
Ode to My Love on CC
My love is a hippopotamus
The absolute bestest bottomest
When she's wet, there's no telling
her backside from a watermelon.
When she's hot, likely as not,
My hippo's hotter than a hottentot
But when she's cold, it's plain to see,
her biggest ass is probably me.
SR
RE: Ode to my Love on CC
Your poem makes me wish for summer . here you go to another poem Mr H****rd . .......... Wanting to touch you
across the miles
deeper than skin
to discover the you
no one else has seen ... Be the one
who inspires me
captivates me
thrills me.
Be my poetry.
across the miles
deeper than skin
to discover the you
no one else has seen ... Be the one
who inspires me
captivates me
thrills me.
Be my poetry.
tattoos
I'm very interested in your opinion . Last year I heard 4 times about , tattoos on women , making them look less sexy .Do you think tattoos make girls look more or less sexy? O.O
RE: tattoos
Honestly, i think it depends A few or some tattoos can be sexy, yes. I love to hear a story behind a tattoo, helps get to know someone better.
But, when you see people who are tattooed from head to toe, then thats too much. For me, thats neither sexy or interesting.
But, when you see people who are tattooed from head to toe, then thats too much. For me, thats neither sexy or interesting.
RE: tattoos
i don't think tattoos are the biggest sins here :)) let's be real. it is what it is and let's not mix it with something else :D have a great day!
RE: tattoos
Religion? Bible? Are you sure about what your writing ? Almost all girls have ear piercings but thats unnaturally right ? so piersings is natural and sexy , tattoos non ?
RE: tattoos
Hmmmm, that is a bit confusing. It sounds like you believe the Bible. What does the Bible say about women who expose themselves to men who are not their husbands. There again, I am always confused!
RE: tattoos
im Not beliver , religion not my stuff , and thats weird read Bible on CC ) hahahaha
RE: tattoos
I haven't read it either, but I heard a lot of information about it .... I am tolerant and if people like tattoos then let them continue to do them .... I like the naturalness and the latest trends in porn to shoot natural girls.
RE: tattoos
I leave it to the men to judge how sexy tattoos and will comment about aesthetic sense. As for me, tattoos make the woman looking …how can I put it…. Looking plain, unsophisticated, non-refined. Counterargument is that some women do it to hide scars and any other skin defects, but the medicine and plastic surgery have advanced and this problem may be solved more or less well already. Not to mention that it is better to get rid of this inferiority complex having scars on the body.
And well, if it is such a strong wish to paint something on skin, why not to use temporary way that can be washed after a while. Especially in the youth, when many people don’t even realize what they are doing at all. Then in later years to make the real tattoo if it is such method of self-fulfillment. At least this decision will be more meaningful.
And well, if it is such a strong wish to paint something on skin, why not to use temporary way that can be washed after a while. Especially in the youth, when many people don’t even realize what they are doing at all. Then in later years to make the real tattoo if it is such method of self-fulfillment. At least this decision will be more meaningful.
RE: tattoos
I have yet to see one which I would say added to the host's appeal. Only one of my favourite's has one. After smoking, it's my seconf biggest turn-off.
RE: Kirstenia
I was wondering myself what happened to her. Very attractive and sweet personality.
RE: Kirstenia
Shes from Ukraine, right? Few girls I spoke to from there stopped around the same time. They were at University and because of quarantine they had to stop and go back home to parents. From what I hear they are still there. Maybe its the same in this case.
RE: Kirstenia
Her profile says she is 30 years old. Everything happens in this world but it is hardly possible she is still studing in the University. More likely she got married or so and started new life :)
RE: Kirstenia
Kirstenia is fine. She is taking a break and has not gotten married :) Perhaps she'll be back but nothing is for certain in life, we all know. But her profile still exists and you can cc mail her there; I am certain at least that she can read them.